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Indian dim sum
Radu balls, a type of Indian food, know it also because of the film "Indian English", a film about family life, about respect, about self-realization.
The film mainly tells the story of Shahi, a housewife in India. Because she does not understand English, she is despised by her children and her husband at home. She will mistake jazz for Chaz dance. of their fathers to attend because their daughters thought it was a shame that their mothers could not speak English - even though their mother tongue was Hindi. One day, a phone call changed Shahi's life. Relatives far away in the United States invited them to help prepare for the marriage. After arriving in the United States ahead of schedule, Shahi secretly signed up for a four-week English course, made many friends, and finally attended the wedding ceremony. The story of the last English speech that caught everyone's attention.
The plot seems simple, but profound.
First of all, let’s talk about life, what is life? Sometimes in the fat circle, I see Senior Brother Fuchu show a table of home-cooked food. This is a kind of life, plain and true; of course, there are people in the fat circle who travel, ask for votes, and shop on behalf of others. Of course, this is also a kind of life. Shahi's previous life was centered on her family. She prepared the family's food and daily life. She was busy every day. Making ladoo balls was her only hobby, because she enjoyed the process of making and enjoying other people's cooking skills. Appreciation, as she said later: "If I can't do well at what I love the most, what's the point of me moving elsewhere." Life is best centered around one point of interest and constantly expanding The radius of the circle, put yourself inside the circle, and enjoy the feeling that all this brings to you.
For example, when I often eat at school, I think, what is the difference between the dishes made by two chefs with similar cooking skills? Just look at the stall where you are waiting for the meal, frowning frowns from the oily smoke, forcing out lines on the forehead, turning the spoon up and down, quickly flipping the "vegetables" in the pot, eager to finish this task quickly and then Doing the next item is called work. What about the other? Choose suitable side dishes and seasonings, enjoy the process, hum a little tune, and the "art" in the pot dances along with it. After the dance, the pot is out. It's called life.
Whether life is a stagnant pool of water does not depend on the external environment, but whether you live your life as a stagnant pool of water, so please enjoy life.
Next, talk about respect. The daughter disrespected her mother and couldn't find an English scrapbook. She assumed that Sahi had placed it elsewhere for her, and yelled at her mother over the phone.
"Where the hell did my scrapbook go and where did you put it?"
"Why are you yelling, calm down"
"How am I going to calm down?"
"Look under your pajamas, it's right there. Leave it alone, so no one will see it."
"That's because you don't understand it either."
Sashimi looked stunned
The husband doesn't respect his wife, he is high above, as if he is on the surface of everything, looking down on everything, self-evident and self-sufficient. Eating a radu ball made by Shahi in his hand, he said in front of relatives and friends: "My wife, she was born to be a ladoo ball. I'm praising you."
No one is born to be a ladoo
Sorry, no one is born to be a Radu ball. What to do, what kind of person to become, that is the result of acquired choice, who will be a Radu ball at birth? Sometimes we tend to take other people's concerns as a matter of course, which is not good. Respect is mutual, just like I saw "let's respect each other" written in Chinese on a bus in the United States, if one party is missing in this game called respect, it becomes a game Narcissistic farce.
I think the mutual respect between husband and wife is not a matter of mutual restraint. Saying hello, thank you and goodbye is more about understanding and understanding. To be able to play that game as an equal, not as an open-ended player and a novice, in that case, one party will definitely quit early, and the zero-sum game ends here.
Furthermore, the realization of self-worth is closely related to respect. How do you get respect if you are "a dead cat can't help a tree"?
In order to gain respect, Shahi signed up for a short four-week English course, starting from the very basics, and went back to read English newspapers, news, and scrutinize the meaning of judgemental words in the evening... From being laughed at when ordering food in a cafe as "" "stupid woman" and blurted out the standard language for ordering, and then to the speech at the wedding, Shahi did it, not to say how well she did it, and some definite articles were still not added, but at least she did it to let others The eyes lit up and she looked up with admiration. This was the respect given to her by others. In a sense, this was what she deserved. God helped the self-help.
This is Shahi, and it could be one of us, you, me, him. All in all, be ourselves, no one is born to be a Radu ball. There is always something in this world that is worth fighting for.
Finally, I will send you Shahi's speech at the wedding:
This wedding is really beautiful. It is also a perfect sublimation of friendship. There is friendship between two equal people. Life is a long journey, Mila, sometimes you feel a little weaker, Kevin, sometimes you feel a little weaker than Mila, it's good to support each other and be equal to each other, sometimes in marriage. of couples don't care about each other's feelings, so how can they support each other? Isn't the marriage coming to an end? In fact, it will not. At this time, you have to help yourself, because no one can help you any more. Only in this way can you feel equal again, the friendship between you will be found again, and your life will still be beautiful. , Mira Kevin, maybe you will be very busy in the future, but you will feel very happy to have a family, a son, a daughter, whether in this large world or in your own small world. Family, only family will never judge you arbitrarily, only family will never belittle you, will not make you feel worthless, family is the only person who will not laugh at your weakness, family is the only one Where you can find love and respect, I wish you all the best of luck, thank you.
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