To live is to know, not to live

Gilda 2022-12-02 19:34:07

Superb Italian high-end comedy. It is the smartest way of expressing embarrassing and serious issues related to the government system in a self-deprecating, self-deprecating and comedic film, which is hilarious and thought-provoking.

This is a film that dares to ridicule itself of the civil servants of the motherland government, and also subtly exposes the problem of multicultural integration. Thinking of Black Mirror in the UK, foreign countries dare to put their own government issues on the table through film and television works for everyone to see, which is a manifestation of civilization and openness. Only if you dare to be self-deprecating will you dare to face up to the problem and make progress. However, in Black Mirror, the irony is too obvious, and I prefer this film to express through the cute little civil servant male protagonist. .

The male protagonist in the movie has a very bad character at the beginning. It can be said that all kinds of typical bad habits are associated with him. He is very outgoing. After meeting the female protagonist in the middle, he quickly becomes very good, civilized and respectful of others. I suddenly felt that after being affected, my relatively fresh character would change more and faster, and self-growth would be more obvious, while those who are not shy, that is, those who obey the law but are indifferent or even petty, do not realize themselves at all. The problem of , may be overtaken by the previous bad boy in personality in an instant, and unconsciously he has become a wave of people with degenerate thoughts. The key is that under China's national conditions, I think everyone is working hard inwardly, holding back and being cautious, keeping their emotions introverted and keeping their personalities well collected, showing a public relations personality to the outside world, and showing their side of themselves to those who are close to them, especially those who work within the system. People, for fear of saying the wrong thing or exposing their own shortcomings. Including myself, I am also deeply affected by the environment, and now I am a very, very slow person. When I was young, I also had a cheerful stage when I wanted to make friends with people who looked good when I first met. Later, I found that everyone showed a social personality that I wanted to show to outsiders. Slowly, he also hid his personality and gave himself a very boring social bag. And the social character has been used for a long time, and it will inevitably have no effect on the true character.

Because of his stubborn and even stubborn character, the male protagonist has experienced a lot and persevered with joy, and finally returned to his post. Compared with the person who signed the slippers at the beginning, it is definitely a success. Afraid to keep doing things and dig deep, so many successful people are fools. The experience of the male protagonist is as colorful and beautiful as the scenery in the film, and he also understands his own heart after the experience. Everyone is, we don’t know our original appearance, only after constant collision with the outside world do we gradually form our own shape, and this collision is to constantly experience strangeness and freshness. To live is to know, not to live.

Thinking of the scene in the movie, the heroine was unhappy after seeing that the heroine's mother, that is, her prospective old woman, came, so she sat down and asked directly, and solved the problem with only three sentences, and I was deeply impressed by every sentence. First sentence, hi xxx, why are you upset? I called my mother-in-law's name directly instead of calling me auntie in China, which made me feel very close; the second sentence, is it because I had three men before? The third sentence, is it because I have too many children with my exes? My mother-in-law replied, I just really don't like the man's yellow beard. . . Then the male protagonist shaved his beard, and both parties were happy. Hahaha, it's not sloppy at all, it's really refreshing to watch. If this is domestic, I don't know how long it will take to unravel the hearts of both parties, and we must consider the language and wording to take care of the other party's mood. . . Tired, emotional intelligence is needed everywhere. Maybe I have a simple understanding of emotional intelligence. I just saw that the real high emotional intelligence is still sincere, and it is not just to talk blindly to make people feel comfortable and aggrieved, but to take care of the other party without losing self, and it needs long-term practice.

I remembered what an old professor said on the Internet when I was writing a thesis in college. I was afraid of writing a thesis. If I drink too much water, I will naturally urinate. Haha, it really feels like writing this. I just read a book on emotional intelligence recently, and it can extend from self-deprecating film reviews of the government to the topic of emotional intelligence. No matter how good he is, if he has input, he will automatically output.

Read more, strengthen deep thinking instead of indoctrination, and believe in books is worse than no books. Before going to bed, I listened to Piao and said that everyone in a family looked the same, and the most inseparable things were these three things, books, music, and beautiful scenery. Other than that, in this respect, such a family is wonderful.

What is emotional intelligence
7.1
Li Xiaoyi / 2017 / Zhejiang Literature and Art Publishing House
Black Mirror Season 1 (2011)
9.4
2011 / United Kingdom / Drama Sci-Fi Thriller / Otto Bathurst Eulos Lynn Brian Welsh / Rory Kinnear Rupert Everett

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