Love together

Clarabelle 2021-12-26 08:01:29

Love together

-"Light between the oceans" film review

Have you ever loved to the depths, have you lost your love, have you ever been discouraged, have you become a parent? "The Light Between the Oceans" is a beam of light, a flash of lightning, suddenly shining into the mottled life and barren heart, shining with the light of human nature.

After the First World War, between the Pacific and Indian Oceans, amidst the dark night fog and stormy waves, the endless light of a lighthouse is the unmoving hope of the entire northern hemisphere and the entire spiritual wilderness above the ruins, illuminating the way forward and comforting the heartache.

Put an end to spoilers. 30+, going round and round, the most rare happiness in life is still a cup of coffee, a good book, or a well-selected movie in the afternoon or midnight on the weekends, taste it slowly, and fit it well. And this movie based on a 2016 best-selling novel in the United States is not to be missed.

And it hit me slowly. After the movie ended, he was curled up in the dark for a long time, lost in the past for a long time.

For a long time, I believe that life is worthy of the most beautiful beauty: love, together. So for this reason, I went back and forth countless times on that road, rain or shine, and never stopped.

For her, I am willing.

I am willing, thousands of times.

I am willing to do everything, I am willing to go through fires and waters, I am willing to pick her up and send her a distance longer than a circle around the earth in these ten years, I am willing to be humiliated and embarrassed by others in every possible way and tolerate humiliation, resentment and tears, I want When I see her, I want to be with her, even if it’s just a glance, even for a moment, even if it’s in the distance, even if it’s just from behind, even if it’s a hug... Although I know, it’s a hug and I don’t want to Let go, don't want to say goodbye, don't want to wake up again...

I love her.

However, in the end it failed to give her completeness. It's just that because I have lost it, I understand it better.

I broke up with her father in the year of the Wenchuan earthquake.

The night after the divorce procedures, I woke up in my sleep, tears streaming down my face, and the pain was so painful that I really lost her. I made a mistake that I couldn't forgive myself in my life. I couldn't get my baby, and I signed for a divorce.

At that time, she was more than two years old.

From then on, in the bottom of my heart, she stayed for more than two years forever. It seemed that no matter what she did, she couldn't give her full warmth, and she couldn't piece together the little pieces that she couldn't bear.

She is so young, and the words she once said broke my heart with blood and tears, and made my heart slashed and sleepless at night:

Mom, can you split it up again?

Mother, don't send me back! I don't want to be separated from you! Please, mother!

Mom, other moms are also with them at night~

Mom, every time I ask the aunt of that beauty shop, do you do beauty in it? I miss my mother, I want to be with you every day...

Mom, you go slower so that we can spend more time together...

Mom, hold me tight, hold me for a while;

Mom, don't cry; Mom, I won't cry anymore, mother bye.

Unforgettable in this life, when she said goodbye, little she tried to forcibly endure the tears in her eyes, and then she couldn't help but slumped down...

That young mother always tried to encourage herself and her child to smile, choked up and said goodbye, then turned around, tears streaming down her face...

The cruelest thing in this world is not the love that can’t be loved, but the innocent life left behind after the love is separated. The executioner is one of the narrow-minded biological parents. .

If you love, please be sure to give them life when they have the ability to give them happiness and integrity;

If you are responsible, please make up the lesson about life and responsibility before marriage.

Obviously, in China and the world, where the divorce rate remains high, the latter is a social issue.

I personally tried to work hard, but in the end to no avail.

Due to work, she has set foot in many countries, traveled many roads, read many books, and learned a lot of truths. After the divorce, we gave her all the love and relative integrity, but still Nandi, who was in the rebellious period at this time, burst into tears and snarled when she faced me: Who let you give me life? Who let you let me live so unhappy? !

I am speechless.

I have always believed in, love, and togetherness. I am convinced that she is just like me.

When she grew up, what she complained about was completely different.

Perhaps, when she gets older, she will gradually understand one day when she gets married and have children. As at the end of the movie, Lucy will be relieved and understand.

Just like I didn't understand my mother's deep love, strength, and courage until I gave birth to her, and I understood the maternal love. It really was a repeated betrayal.

Baby, thank you for coming to me, although being your mother is your passive choice, but I want to take this to tell you:

For you, I am willing, thousands of times.

I am willing to go into battle and go through fires and waters, and will never change in this life.

Because I am a mother, I am a soldier.

Love. Together.

2020.02.26

ZZ,CN

PS: The theme of the film is different from my personal experience, but love is the eternal truth.

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Extended Reading
  • Guillermo 2021-12-26 08:01:29

    The casting director Maisler is really good. The actor is selected from Germany, the heroine is selected from Sweden, and the supporting actress is selected from Eastern European British. Teaching them (especially MF) to play the role of a generation of Australians devastated by the European War, but teaching them to play the poor German, coincides with the theme of forgiveness (and Maisler is a surname). The lonely role played by MF can also teach the audience to immediately think of Shame and generate stimulating positive expectations, and get a more complex viewing experience from it.

  • Kirsten 2022-04-22 07:01:40

    Although I feel that the plot is a bit far-fetched, I still like Uncle Fa? Want to give birth to a monkey for Fa shark?

The Light Between Oceans quotes

  • Tom Sherbourne: Sometimes it's good to leave the past in the past.

    Isabel Graysmark: So if I can't talk about the past, am I allowed to talk about the future?

    Tom Sherbourne: We can't rightly talk about the future if you think about it. We can only talk about what we imagine or wish for. It's not the same thing.

  • Isabel Graysmark: Take me out to Janus with you.

    Tom Sherbourne: What?

    Isabel Graysmark: I want to see it. I want to see where you hide yourself away.

    Tom Sherbourne: I'm afraid that that would be against Commonwealth rules. The only woman allowed on Janus is the keeper's wife.

    Isabel Graysmark: Then marry me.