Disheartened

Katlynn 2021-12-21 08:01:21

The definition of "disheartened": On the surface it looks normal, but what you said to him may never be serious and perfunctory; because life is so peaceful, it seems that he can't feel any real emotions in the end of.

Accompanied by the singing of the choir, "Ordinary People" (Ordinary People) showed a peaceful life scene at the beginning. The sea, the sycamore trees, the flying birds, the tree-lined paths, and the sunlight, as the angle of view is drawn back, the colors gradually become brighter. Afterwards, there was not a trace of the middle-class life unfolding before us: a mother whose everything seemed very busy, a father whose personality was slightly weak, and a son who was confused and restless. There seems to be a kind of mystery under the early calm, which makes one wonder: What happened to this named Conrad? He killed his brother? The plot continues to develop downwards, we know that Conrad's brother drowned and Conrad deeply blames himself. However, with the intervention of the psychiatrist, Conrad and his father were relieved, and the girl Jeannine Conrad met added vitality to Conrad's life. The suicide of Karen-supposedly the Conrad brothers' ex-girlfriend-made Conrad completely let go, causing his father to want to end this state and hope the whole family can talk frankly. But because Conrad's mother refused, the conflict intensified and reached a climax. In the process, both Conrad and his father did something. There were several warm scenes, but none of them lasted. In the end, Conrad's mother left home and Conrad and his father were happy.

The film has Zhang Youchi, and the rhythm is well grasped. Just like its title, there is no grandeur, no passion, but ordinary life: plain, quarreling, reconciliation; lost, but recovered in another place; death, but life continues.

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Extended Reading
  • Cora 2022-04-23 07:02:34

    hurt/comfort, that oppressive and awkward atmosphere is so well presented, and the image of a mother is so real and irritating.

  • Ray 2022-03-24 09:02:13

    Blu-ray + Chinese translation: DT-91326 "Ordinary People" - Pure American family life theme, need to watch again

Ordinary People quotes

  • Calvin "Cal" Jarrett: He just wants to know that you don't hate him.

    Beth Jarrett: Hate him! How could I hate him? Mothers don't hate their sons! Is that what he told you? You see how you believe everything he tells you? And you can't do the same for me, you can't! GOD I DON'T KNOW WHAT ANYONE WANTS FROM ME ANYMORE!

    Ward: Beth, we don't want anything from you; Audrey, Cal, Connie and Me, we just want you to be happy.

    Beth Jarrett: Happy! Ward, you tell me the definition of happy. But first you better make sure your kids are good and safe, that they haven't fallen of a horse, been hit by a car, or drown in that swimming pool you're so proud of!

    Audrey: Oh Beth!

    Beth Jarrett: Then, you come and tell me how to be happy!

  • Conrad "Con" Jarrett: When I let myself feel, all I feel is lousy.

    Dr. Berger: Oh well excuse me, I never promised you a rose garden.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh fuck you Berger.

    Dr. Berger: What?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: FUCK YOU!

    Dr. Berger: Hey, that's it!

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Geez! You're really weird huh, what do you feel huh? Do you jerk off, or jack off, or whatever you call it?

    Dr. Berger: What do you think?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: What do I think? I think you're married to a fat lady and you go home and you fuck the living daylights out of her!

    Dr. Berger: Sounds good to me.