Conrad felt guilty for his brother's death, collapsed because his friend committed suicide, his father was cautious because of family changes, and his mother's selfishness and strong self-protection made the family like an ice breaker.
For the father, the funeral of the eldest son does not matter to the father on the outside. The heart is the sadness of losing the eldest son and the wife still cares about the shirt to make the father uncomfortable. Perhaps it is because the wife is too sensible?
My mother doesn't want to be known that Conrad is seeing a doctor. I think she might think it's indecent to see a psychologist? This is a personal feeling. For me, I think my mother is a bit selfish, and she always avoids, and avoiding can’t solve any problems, but I think she cares too, she cares about the youngest son, cares about her husband, cares about the family, but Her emotions are closed, because she is afraid of losing again? I think my mother should also see a psychiatrist.
Finally, I want to say that we are all ordinary people. Don’t put all the responsibilities on ourselves. We are not gods. We can’t be perfect. Some selves may let go of themselves and look at all the things and all the processes. , Don’t hold on to your faults. All mistakes are not a person’s business. I said that this is not to throw blame, but to feel that sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves. You did not throw blame, but took all the responsibility. Right?
Uh, this is the first time I wrote, I don’t know if I have expressed my thoughts accurately, please advise if there is anything wrong
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