We are all ordinary people

Omari 2021-12-21 08:01:21

Conrad felt guilty for his brother's death, collapsed because his friend committed suicide, his father was cautious because of family changes, and his mother's selfishness and strong self-protection made the family like an ice breaker.

For the father, the funeral of the eldest son does not matter to the father on the outside. The heart is the sadness of losing the eldest son and the wife still cares about the shirt to make the father uncomfortable. Perhaps it is because the wife is too sensible?

My mother doesn't want to be known that Conrad is seeing a doctor. I think she might think it's indecent to see a psychologist? This is a personal feeling. For me, I think my mother is a bit selfish, and she always avoids, and avoiding can’t solve any problems, but I think she cares too, she cares about the youngest son, cares about her husband, cares about the family, but Her emotions are closed, because she is afraid of losing again? I think my mother should also see a psychiatrist.

Finally, I want to say that we are all ordinary people. Don’t put all the responsibilities on ourselves. We are not gods. We can’t be perfect. Some selves may let go of themselves and look at all the things and all the processes. , Don’t hold on to your faults. All mistakes are not a person’s business. I said that this is not to throw blame, but to feel that sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves. You did not throw blame, but took all the responsibility. Right?

Uh, this is the first time I wrote, I don’t know if I have expressed my thoughts accurately, please advise if there is anything wrong

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  • Reinhold 2022-04-21 09:02:31

    Although it is not enough to lose the angry bull in seconds, it has to be said that this is a rare good movie. Solid script, extremely strong performance. Soul catcher definitely steals a lot from it.

  • Novella 2022-04-24 07:01:14

    Not sure what else to say. This movie has given me so much and said so much that I want to say, and I am reluctant to share those feelings with others. Many times we just can't let ourselves go

Ordinary People quotes

  • Calvin "Cal" Jarrett: He just wants to know that you don't hate him.

    Beth Jarrett: Hate him! How could I hate him? Mothers don't hate their sons! Is that what he told you? You see how you believe everything he tells you? And you can't do the same for me, you can't! GOD I DON'T KNOW WHAT ANYONE WANTS FROM ME ANYMORE!

    Ward: Beth, we don't want anything from you; Audrey, Cal, Connie and Me, we just want you to be happy.

    Beth Jarrett: Happy! Ward, you tell me the definition of happy. But first you better make sure your kids are good and safe, that they haven't fallen of a horse, been hit by a car, or drown in that swimming pool you're so proud of!

    Audrey: Oh Beth!

    Beth Jarrett: Then, you come and tell me how to be happy!

  • Conrad "Con" Jarrett: When I let myself feel, all I feel is lousy.

    Dr. Berger: Oh well excuse me, I never promised you a rose garden.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh fuck you Berger.

    Dr. Berger: What?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: FUCK YOU!

    Dr. Berger: Hey, that's it!

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Geez! You're really weird huh, what do you feel huh? Do you jerk off, or jack off, or whatever you call it?

    Dr. Berger: What do you think?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: What do I think? I think you're married to a fat lady and you go home and you fuck the living daylights out of her!

    Dr. Berger: Sounds good to me.