For a moment, I asked myself, does the tone of pure love have to be so hurt?
This is something I never understand. All those touching stories will more or less earn a few tears, which will make a hypocritical person like me feel sad for a while. And those peaceful and long-lasting happy loves are seldom paid attention to, and are used as talking points. Does this mean that once love is happy, it is not good enough? People always keep saying, cherish it, don't miss it, and don't leave any regrets. But he is always used to being immersed in sentimental emotions. It is not that he cannot come out, but that he is unwilling to come out by himself. Perhaps, missing, regretting, coexisting with beauty itself, has an inexplicable gravitational force. A story is a story, if there is no conflict, how can it develop?
A house, a letter box, a tree, a puppy, and a sea. If the picture is fixed here, I think, I will love this film without hesitation. Dense, gray, slow but not low. Let me smell a salty taste, it belongs to the sea, naturally, but also from a deep place in the hearts of men and women. Eun Shu said, "Il Mare" can make you feel lonely. It was always like this when she lived there. At that moment, I could clearly feel that Enshu's loneliness, or "Il Mare"'s loneliness, is actually the continuation of Xingxian's loneliness. Through "Il Mare," the lives of two strangers are tied tightly together, and she continues to live his life, alone in his loneliness. And Xingxian's inner loneliness is precisely because of Enshu. Is it a coincidence, is it destiny? Or, can we explain it this way, in fact, loneliness is just because of ourselves.
If I were Xingxian, I should not have the courage to meet Eunshu. I can't help but wonder what it is like to live two years later and yet be so close to me. Maybe I will look at her from a distance, maybe I will walk to her side on purpose and listen to her voice, or maybe I will pass her by, or sit next to her and feel her exhalation temperature. But I'm not going to tell her everything that happened to me and her in the future because of fear. Yes, I always feel that such a distance, a distance in time, makes everything beautiful. This distance should be a kind of protection for me, separated by all the truth, I can write down the knots in my heart that are usually difficult to speak, just like talking to myself, send it to the other party, and then expect a reply. However, if we met, wouldn't everything turn into the relationship between friends in reality? People are strange animals, and when some special patterns disappear, maybe they will get bored. So, I admire Xingxian and Eunshu. I believe it must have taken a lot of courage for them to make the decision to meet. So yeah, I missed it here, but it made me feel relieved.
From the beginning of the movie, the picture is fixed in that ordinary letter box, and everything is doomed to be incredible. Even if he and she are strangers, even if they don't know each other, they can still confide in the other party the most unwillingness to release emotions hidden in their hearts. Lovers, out of reach, but very close. Yes, how can such a most direct, sincere-to-sincere communication not generate trust and dependence? Love, which exists in the strong mutual trust and dependence, must be the strongest one.
Perhaps this, Enshu did not understand at that time. She herself would say, "We are tormented because love continues, not because love disappears." This is understandable. But when exactly does love disappear? One party has already left, but the other party has been reluctant to let go. In this way, does love still exist? Enshu's ignorance caused Xingxian's loneliness, so if he couldn't touch it, he really couldn't touch it again.
So, let's start all over again.
I have seen too many sad scenes in Korean dramas, missed, lifelong regrets, regrets, and want to cry without tears. That may be true, but it is too frustrating. So, I thank the director for this arrangement. Well, he lied to my tears, but he still did not forget to bring me hope. Whether it is an expectation of love or a wish, even if you say that the pursuit of beauty and perfection is just to deceive us children who are ignorant of the world. Well, I still insist on telling you that I am willing to be deceived. Here, there is my best hope, um, it is for everyone, but also for myself - if there is one day, I, we are so unlucky to be hurt by love, then, I hope at that time, We, like now, can keep hope and gratitude, believe in love, and keep believing.
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