In "Long Time", the male and female protagonists failed to succeed in their attempts to have a super life, and the part of being taken to the hospital for an abortion was heart-wrenching. My family has a successful super life, and there is a lot of bitterness in it. Some pain seems to be long-lasting for our family. No matter how time passes, those scars still haven't healed, and every touch will still bring a slight pain. My mother suffered the most from the superbirth. In order to avoid the Family Planning Commission, my mother hid in Tibet soon after she became pregnant, and lived alone in the old forest in the mountains. The families she borrowed at that time were all people with some relatives, and they lived in each family for three to five days. Some people are very nice, and they really help. My mother always goes to visit during Chinese New Year and festivals. Some people have to accept their mother because of their relationship, but their attitude is not very good. I hope that my mother will leave quickly and not cause them trouble, and my mother understands it. However, there are family members who deduct the food that my mother brought, and my mother complained about this. Her mother was able to endure the warmth and affection of the running around. What made her suffer was that the Family Planning Commission, in order to force her to appear, took away all the relatives on her mother's side, who they could. When my grandfather was taken away, my mother fled after hearing the news, and happened to meet my grandfather in an alley. Mom said that she was distressed at the time, and she had to pretend to be calm and pretend that she didn't know her grandfather. When the two passed by, time seemed to be stretched infinitely. Her heart was in her throat, but she didn't dare to look at her grandfather, so she strode forward. Tears fell, and his vision was blurred. For fear of being discovered by the Family Planning Commission, she did not dare to wipe her tears, so she walked forward in a blur. The relatives who were taken away spent a lot of time inside. The uncle was in prison for 21 days at the time. After he came out, he joked that it happened to hatch a nest of chicks. The mother went through twists and turns and gave birth to a younger sister. I guess Mom must have been very desperate at the time. She and Dad wanted to have a son. Not having a son is a pain in my father's heart, and he only let it go in the past few years. In the past, he was drunk and liked to talk to us. He even cried a few times, saying that he had no son, and everyone looked down on him. My sister and I were both very irritable and helpless at the time, so every time he had a drink, we both went to bed early. But what's annoying about my dad is that when he's very drunk, he'll wake up our sisters even when we're asleep. What's more annoying is that the next day he has absolutely no memory of what he did. I understand my father's pain. When my grandmother died, his head turned white overnight, and his heart was so painful that he couldn't stand up. Before I only knew that he loved grandma very much, but I didn't expect to love him so much. But grandma didn't love him that much. Grandma's patriarchal ideology is particularly serious. She never avoids it, and will regretfully tell my sister and me, why don't you bring your children. My mother wanted to have a third child because she was angry with her grandmother. dad He is a delicate and very soft person. He will miss her for several months because his sister goes to school. He thinks of her and wants to cry. The grandma's disappointment with him because he didn't have a son must have tortured him. After giving birth to my sister, I had to pay a fine for over-birth, and the fine was very large. My family didn't recover until my junior high school. At that time, my mother's relatives helped me out with a lot of money, and my grandfather sold everything that could be sold at home, but the fine was too high, and it was far worse. Grandpa went to grandpa and grandma. After all, he was his granddaughter, so he had to be interesting. As a result, my grandmother refused to pay a penny, and she confidently said that her mother could not give birth to a son, which was bad luck. Grandpa was so angry that he regretted marrying the wrong person for his mother. Later, he always used alcohol to relieve his worries. When I was in junior high school, my grandfather died of stomach cancer. When I went to the grave, my mother knelt in front of the grave, crying breathlessly. When I was in college, one time my mother talked about my grandfather, and she still burst into tears. She said that the one I was most sorry for in this life was my grandfather. There is also a background on the fine, in fact, there is no need to fine so much. My parents checked the amount of the fine that year, and my family had enough money to pay the fine. But when grandpa was the secretary, he offended someone. In order to get revenge on grandpa, the man kept writing anonymous letters to the Family Planning Commission after knowing that his parents were going to give birth. Later, he also asked several people to write a joint letter. Things got worse and worse, and the Family Planning Commission had no choice but to take the parents as a model, and the fine was nearly ten times higher than the parents expected. The person who started has a son and a daughter. When I was in elementary school, his son died in a car accident. The hearse came at night, and the mournful music was especially loud. My mother and I were watching TV. I didn't understand sadness and music, so I asked who was playing music. My mother explained it to me, and then she was very emotional and told me about the anonymous letter that the person wrote. She said she had long known it was him who wrote the letter, but she didn't identify it or tell Dad. She was afraid that her father would be impulsive and go to trouble the other party, so she would be the same as that person. People, don't take revenge, just live well. The superbirth also had an impact on the three sisters. My sister also hid everywhere, and went to dinner with my grandmother, and went to school for a year. My elder sister is very precocious, she knows how to help her parents to share their worries at a young age, and when she comes home from school, she takes care of the children, does laundry, and cooks. My sister seems to have always felt ashamed of her parents. She has been very well-behaved and obedient since she was a child. The only time I rebelled was to hold a parent-teacher meeting. At that time, in order to pay back the money quickly, my parents were so busy that they didn't have time to hold a parent-teacher conference for us. My sister couldn't stand the teacher asking her why her parents didn't come every time, and she was envious of other classmates' parents coming, so she rolled on the ground. Mom went, thinking she was doing well in the exam, So if you have to let it go, the results are not very good. This later became a joke in my family. It wasn't Chaosheng that had an impact on me, but the preference for sons over daughters. I was very unconvinced when I was a child, I would do everything a boy can do. Girls are not allowed to go to the grave during the Chinese New Year, so I have to go. There is a large group of people, just me, a little girl, and I have to jog to keep up with the pace of adults; Drink, but I'm going to sit at that table and frown listening to their cacophony. Because there is only a daughter in the family, some things cannot be done without a son. Therefore, my parents are also tolerant of these childish practices of me. All kinds of past, all become me. Fortunately, our family is living a very happy life now, and those pains will sink in the bottom of my heart.
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