Like is presumptuous and love is restraint

Dejah 2022-04-23 07:01:05

The younger brother's behavior towards the older brother: provocation, anger, tears, not admit defeat but finally admit defeat. Why is this performance?
Try to think from his point of view: 1. His father was drinking too much, causing the family to break up, and his mother died in a foreign land. 2. The elder brother didn't go with his mother and him as planned. In the end, he had to bury his mother. 3. Brothers in the army were killed by their own people.
Then his motivation to win, that is, not to admit defeat, is to punish his brother, suppress his psychological catharsis, and take care of his widow.
In the first and second rounds, the younger brother provoked and beat the elder brother, completely one-sided. This is a punishment and a catharsis, and it is also a display of the strong, that is, I am stronger than you, you come and beat me.
In the third round, my brother broke his arm and cried, but he still wanted to fight.
In the fourth round, the elder brother beat the younger brother, but it did not end, and the younger brother cried bitterly. In the fifth round, the younger brother conceded defeat.
Even adding the four motives can't explain it, because the younger brother is the kind who won't admit defeat at all, then if it is because the older brother said he loves him, why didn't it end in the fourth round, the older brother fully showed it in the fourth round, He could have voluntarily ended the game in the fourth round. The situation where the younger brother admits defeat is that the older brother can end at any time and keeps saying that he loves him, which means that the older brother wins and loves him.
At this time, the elder brother is a strong man and a lover, which is the reason why the younger brother admits defeat.
Judging from the growth trajectory of the younger brother, he has always faced a powerful but unloving object. The father is strong but alcoholic, the mother is not strong, the elder brother should be stronger than himself but did not go with him and his mother, the army was strong but blew up his own Brother, the soldier in the tank is not strong, the widow of the brother is not strong, and the brother is not strong in fighting.
And the younger brother is a manifestation of resistance to those powerful and unloving objects, such as not forgiving his father and elder brother, and escaping from the army. For those who are not powerful, his performance is different, such as saving the person in the tank and leaving immediately, KO the opponent and leaving immediately, to win the game to take care of his brother's widow, and he comforts his father who was drinking again after a breakdown. Therefore, he is doing what the strong are doing to those who are not powerful, and he does not say hello (soldier, opponent) when he should do what he should do. If he still needs love, he will love him.
So in the first two rounds, my younger brother thought that he was a powerhouse in fighting, a punishment and a catharsis. If he knocked out his elder brother, he would have walked away without looking back, because in his eyes, his elder brother did not need his love. of. In the third round, the younger brother began to cry. At this time, the tears were probably because he already knew that he might not be the strong one. He could not take the responsibility of taking care of his brother's widow, which also meant that his brother was stronger than himself, so he should follow The mother walks together, so that the younger brother will not take the responsibility of taking care of the mother alone. But at this time his brother still hadn't defeated him, and he wasn't a strong man with love, so he didn't admit defeat and was beaten for a whole round. At the end of the fourth round, my brother didn't kill him. At this time, the soundtrack remembered that my brother was crying, and he felt his brother's love. But the strong should do what the strong should do, and should take the responsibility of the strong. In the arena, my brother should defeat himself. So the fifth round played again, and in the end my brother became that strong and loving person.
The father was not in a psychologically weak position when he was talking to his younger brother. He thought that he was working hard and that he was still equal, but the son threw the game coins in his face and he was completely desperate. The younger brother watched his father walk from the game room, and the camera gave a long view. The lonely back of the father and the out-of-control performance of alcoholism completely subverted the strong and weak relationship between the father and son. The father became the weak person who was out of control and needed comfort, so the younger brother put He hugged him into bed to comfort him. The younger brother also became that strong and loving person from his father.
The younger brother has been looking forward to having such a person since he was a child, trying to do it without him, until he did it with his father, until he let his brother did it in the fighting arena. In the end, the elder brother helped his younger brother out of the arena, and it was the person he had been looking forward to supporting him. As for whether the younger brother has forgiven his father and elder brother, this is not necessarily, but a new chapter has already begun.
So the strong must win, but also love, this is the traditional Chinese martial arts.
I remembered that after the godfather's accident, he asked his son not to take revenge.

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