watch Jane Austen’s novels or movies. The work was so busy some time ago, every time I saw a movie adapted from her novel, I still couldn’t help but keep watching Go down, even if it's late, and you have to go to work tomorrow. The plot is very ordinary, just like your neighbor's old man tells you a story. The excitement lies in its lines and the depiction of the details of the characters, all revealing the wisdom of life. Although time After so long, many things have changed with each passing day, but the only constant is human nature. It is this point that keeps her work fresh from day to day.
Regarding the choice of the other half, whether you ultimately want to get married or not, you are undoubtedly a person One of the most important choices in life. For women, they are even given the meaning of the second destiny. The first time is your birth. The second time is your marriage. Unfortunately, since childhood Great, we all rarely receive this kind of emotional education, love education, the art of getting along with marriage, the art of choice, and we can only rely on ourselves to learn from our parents, people around us, or explore ourselves.
Boys are better, Because of the psychological and physiological characteristics of girls, they have been tolerated and guided since childhood, and they are generally more emotional and more emotional. The most precious thing about Jane Austen is to point out the preciousness of rationality to the majority of female friends. Use your brain to think The problem is not to think about the other party, what the world is like, what is the marriage. The whole world will not be changed by your personal will. Especially don't be fooled by the other's appearance and sweet words.
On the contrary, the same as for boys, you must Otherwise, the wife will elope with someone. Elopement, this was a very bad and embarrassing thing in the social environment at the time, and the whole family would be ashamed of it. Although the modern social environment is much more relaxed than in the past, it can The harm to avoid is to be avoided as much as possible. As an ordinary individual, there are already many difficult challenges to accept.
This valuable reason helps you make a good choice and make a right decision. When you grow up, you have to face the cruelty and dangers of this world independently. Learn to face the difficulties and challenges, don’t make any illusions, and know yourself , Recognize human nature, rely on oneself, make choices, and have the courage to bear their own responsibilities and the consequences of choices.
Jane Austen is a realistic idealist. Looking at her works, you are always very lucky. The heroine and the hero may be lost for a short time, but in the end they can always find true love, marry true love, live happily together, the perfect combination of rationality and sensibility, reality Balance with ideals. Therefore, Qiong Yao's novels can fascinate a generation, but Jane Austen's novels can become classics and be loved by people centuries later.
What is true love?
"Love without commitment is narcissism, love that cannot give money is not love, and thoughts that do not give time are not misses, unspoken sympathy is not sympathy.
Loving a wife means, that is Stay with her." To
quote Wang Shuya, a writer and film critic of Southern Weekly, this is true love, giving her time, caring, and money, taking her as a wife, respecting and taking care of her feelings, and being kind to her family. This is in Jane Austen's novels, you can see it as one. To be
more serious, all those who pursue love and happiness, marriage happiness, take a look at Jane Austen's works.
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