1. If he is passive and reserved.
"Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship" "Maybe he's shy" "Maybe he has low self-esteem" "Maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me"... In the entire course of human history, any man will get close to you without caring about breaking up" Friendship", he can't be too afraid to chase you because of shyness and inferiority, the only thing he is "feared" is that he is so "indifferent" to you, he will not know how to contact you, mobile phone, email, IM , SNS, twitter... He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, network, google to find you - unless he doesn't want to find you. Maybe some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age, girls should take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him - because he will take the initiative to send it to your door. 2. If he doesn't do what he promises you, even if it's just a phone call. "He was really busy so he forgot" "At least he really apologized to me"... He is very busy, he is about to take office as the president of the United States, and he has to negotiate hundreds of millions of dollars in business an hour. It's crazy busy to not have time to call you. There are cell phones, speed dials, and even voice dials. Sometimes, when you don't even want to make a call, the phone is dialed out of your pants pocket. Why don't you have time to make a call? If you really like you, you won't forget it, if you forget it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in relationships, synonymous with "jerk," the person who perfunctory you with being busy. —(sound) Men know what "priorities" are, as for apologies? Oh, no time to listen to his nonsense. 3. If he is ambiguous. "He's been hurt before" "He has a messy life now" "He just broke up/divorced and he wants to take it slow" "He's used to being free"... These are all urban myths to deal with girls that guys don't like, if If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous, and he will declare the ownership of you in the world. He does not want to see your friends and family, because he is with you and not with your mother. He does not want to Take you into his circle and say that because it's just two people's business, if he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, then please automatically translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time" "I don't like it very much. you". 4. If he doesn't want to get too close to you. "I'm a man, if I like you, I'll kiss you", although I feel very embarrassed and cold, but I think it's true, if you like you, you should like your inner and outer, do you want someone who likes you? The person who said to you "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend"... I guess Plato and his old man would not say that. 5. If he betrays you. "He drank too much" "That was just an occasional accident" "He was careless"... There is no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally", he can't say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell on someone else's bed." Knowing that it will break the rules of love, but also to implement it , you should just dump him, the worst thing is that someone may doubt his own charm because of this, 6. If he is too drunk to come to you. If you don't want to change for you, then you should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety. 7. If the time is right but he still doesn't want to get married. "Maybe I'm too open-minded" "He was shadowed by his childhood family" "He wasn't ready"...Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists... You can give a lecture criticizing the marriage system and tell you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract, but I'm sorry, first of all you have to understand that "don't want to marry" may just mean "don't want to marry you" ", those who say "don't want to get married" will eventually get married, just not with you. 8. If he keeps breaking up with you, and then comes to you to make up. First of all, please keep your demeanor and stop calling and texting him. If you break up, it's a break up. You don't think that as long as he comes back to you, you can continue to chat, meet, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed the fish, greet his parents and friends, use his voicemail to check his call log. . . . . The person who really likes you won't break up with you, and won't toss you over and over again, so please wake up, unless you want to be Miss Yoyo Champion. 9. If he suddenly disappears inexplicably. Don't spend a lot of energy on solving the "Missing Man Mystery", no matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only truth is that he doesn't want to be with you anymore and has no guts to be with you say clearly. Trust me, there's no secret - he's not good enough for you. 10. If he is married. Not much to say, at least until he gets divorced. If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain. Sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too low self-esteem, too holy, too fond of his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too Oedipus, too busy, too much childhood shadow, too much family pressure, too tired, too crazy, too tan Too dark, too suicidal... But he doesn't want to see the simple fact clearly, yes, he's not too busy, he's not injured, he doesn't have childhood shadows, he didn't encounter earthquakes and floods, he's not going to be president, he's not brainless He suffered short-term amnesia due to shock. It's not that the phone fell into the hot pot. It's not that he has amnesia. He just doesn't like you that much.
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