Everyone has an inflatable doll in their heart

Chad 2022-04-22 07:01:16

Some people say that the love of inflatable dolls is just a title party in disguise.
If so, then as a headliner, he was successful because I was attracted to headlines.
Lars and the Real Girl———— Lars and the Real Girl. Lars, who is autistic, cannot get along naturally with others, especially women. He shut himself up in his own spiritual world—beautiful and lonely. Oh, he's a good guy, but he's not a normal person, or he's not a normal person in the eyes of normal people.
Thinking that his days would always pass in such a closed world, by chance, he knew about inflatable dolls. He doesn't use it for lust like other men do. Perhaps to another extent, it is also considered to be a desire to vent, a desire to communicate with people. It's not that he doesn't want to, or he can't. In the face of other people's words, he always panics. Such a girl - a girl who can't speak, can't act is the real girl he can accept. He doesn't have to worry about how to answer her, or whether she will do something he can't handle.
So he treated the inflatable doll as a normal person, taking her to church, to parties, to lake tours, and even to shopping in the hospital to see a doctor. What surprised me was not his strange behavior, but the reactions of people around him when they saw his behavior. After the initial surprise, everyone was willing to sincerely help Lars cure autism, and everyone began to act and treat the doll as a real person, ask her to work, and invite her to parties. When Lars imagined that the doll was about to die, those few knitted sweaters while accompanying Lars really moved me, and they said lightly, "We come here to sit, and people do it when misfortune comes unexpectedly. They come and sit down."
Many people commented on the film as warm. Really warm. That feeling makes me feel very warm.
The female colleague who liked Lars did not give up on Lars because of his weirdness, but kept silently caring for him.
Lars' brother and his wife have always been concerned about Lars
and the grandma who gave Lars a flower, the psychiatrist and all the people in town.
Warmth - the word couldn't be better.
Finally, with the burial of the inflatable doll, Lars invited the female colleague for a walk, and then smiled from the inside out for the first time. It was a different smile than before, because I saw wisdom in that smile.
Maybe he already knew that the inflatable doll was just a dream, or maybe his autism had already been resolved long before he had
said that, and he has digressed. Originally, I wanted to say that there is such a person in everyone's heart, who can satisfy all your fantasies about the opposite sex and meet all your conditions. But that person can only live in your heart. Although no one can replace her, she can't replace anyone.

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Lars and the Real Girl quotes

  • Gus: What are we doing? Why are we doing this for him?

    Karin: Oh, come on. It's funny!

    Gus: Is it?

    Karin: I don't know. I don't know, maybe not.

    [gets up, leaves]

  • Lars Lindstrom: I was talking to Bianca, and she was saying that in her culture they have these rites of passages and rituals and cermonies, and, just all kinds of things that, when you do them, go through them, let you know that you're an adult? Doesn't that sound great?

    Gus: It does.

    Lars Lindstrom: How'd you know?

    Gus: How'd I know what?

    Lars Lindstrom: That you were a man

    Gus: Ahhh. I couldn't tell ya.

    Lars Lindstrom: Was it... okay, was it sex?

    Gus: Um. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's uh, yeah, yeah it's kind of - it's uh - no. Well, it's kind of sex but it's not uh, you know? I don't know. I don't know. It's - uh - good question, good question.

    Lars Lindstrom: Yeah, but I have to know

    Gus: [dryer buzzes] Hold that thought.

    Gus: [in basement] You know, you should ask Dagmar

    Lars Lindstrom: I did ask Dagmar. And she said that I should ask you.

    Gus: Okay, you know I can only give you my opinion.

    Lars Lindstrom: That's what we want

    Gus: Well, it's not like you're one thing or the other, okay? There's still a kid inside but you grow up when you decide to do right, okay, and not what's right for you, what's right for everybody, even when it hurts.

    Lars Lindstrom: Okay, like what?

    Gus: Like, you know, like, you don't jerk people around, you know, and you don't cheat on your woman, and you take care of your family, you know, and you admit when you're wrong, or you try to, anyways. That's all I can think of, you know - it sound like it's easy and for some reason it's not.