In the first quarrel of Gregg and Earl's "colleague" career, Earl finally released all the puzzling and depression that had been accumulated for a long time about Gregg's actions:
"Why do you always care about what other people think, you're a fool to please the one and please the other, listen, no one cares about you at all, Greg! Understand? No one cares! Then, one day, suddenly this Care about your girl, but you're here to complain about the movie? Are you complaining because someone cares about you? Damn, I'm so annoying you, you treat her like a burden to you, you understand? She'll be right away You're going to die! You came over to me and complained about these idiots!"
Once good friends conflict, it is always easy to expose the problems of one person to the other because they are too familiar with each other.
In fact, what Earl is trying to say is simple. In the face of others, it is okay to be kind, but not to please; in the face of oneself, introspection is okay, but inferiority is not. You can have your own tempers and likes and dislikes, your own hobbies and styles, and you can try to love and be loved, but don't get carried away by your appearance. (Greg has mentioned more than once that he is not handsome or likable...) You must know that those who really care about you never choose to accept or abandon you based on how good you are. Those who care about you are often I decided to embrace you after seeing the preciousness of your soul.
As Rachel put it when she helped Greg get a chance at Bittsburg State University:
"He's an infinitely kind, caring, dedicated and sincere man, and no matter how much he denies it, he can't change that. This school year, his grades have slipped, mainly because he's been trying to make me Happy, and it made him sad during this time, you can check with him, but his self-loathing may be coming out again. No one has ever made me happy like him, and no one else has. "
Greg who makes Rachel happy is definitely not Greg who complains about himself, but Greg who knows how to make jokes and is full of infinite imagination and enthusiasm for his movie creation.
It's not easy to inspire a dying person unless you live and love yourself first.
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