I’ve downloaded a movie for a long time, but I haven’t watched it. Sometimes when I write about sex education for children, it always makes people feel uncomfortable when it involves sexual assault. It seems that all the dark sides of human nature are presented here.
The film "Suspicion of Child Abuse" did not go very deep, and it felt much different from the Korean dramas "The Furnace" and "Suyuan". But in terms of human nature, the portrayal is good. Religion and race are involved. After the mother knew what happened to her son, she chose to settle down. Parents' disapproval should be the greatest harm to children. I remember reading a book before, saying that if little babies don’t get the attention of their mothers, they will feel that they don’t exist, which means that their perception of themselves in this world comes from their parents. When you are hurt yourself, without the support of your parents, the damage will be greater, deeper, and irreparable.
At the end of the film, a very frightening imagination is given. The child abuser has not only not been brought to justice, but has gained greater power. His forced departure saved a child, but more children are about to be hurt, and the protagonist's nun has a deep sense of powerlessness.
In the film, the nun has repeatedly emphasized that this person will not change. In Chinese, a dog can't change and eat shit. If from the psychological description, this person should be a pedophile, can this kind of person be changed? I also have doubts. When I was watching the TV series "Next Stop, Farewell" today, I saw the heroine's cleanliness addiction, and I was also thinking, is there any way to treat it? In some recent cases of consultation, I saw some people's fixed behaviors, cognitions, or characters that have been formed. Can these things be changed?
If we can change it, what should we do? If not, how far can we do it? After I wanted to write the sentence "how to help them", I deleted it again, I was thinking, are child abusers worth helping? Want to help?
Is a psychiatrist the same as a real doctor, when dealing with patients, it is their duty to treat patients and save others, regardless of whether the person is heinous or not?
What is the best way to give back to the world?
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