Sex and city and my recent living

Michel 2022-10-17 10:39:30

After watching the whole set of "sex and city", my mood has been very heavy. I don't know if it's because the story ends in a loving winter, so beautifully, so suddenly.
I can't forget to watch this American drama with Oreos and all the sweets I can eat, because the colorful food in it is really tempting, and it arouses my desire for sweets, just like a man arouses Samantha's desire for sex. Once I saw Carey and Melanie chatting while eating Oreos on the bed before bed, and suddenly found an excuse for themselves to eat sweets, especially after Pizza Hut had an Oreo ice cream. There is a special nostalgia for it. Of course, not only Oreos, all the food I want to eat, I will put it in front of this Sex and the City time, the fat and energy I resist with all my will seems to be only around it , would be a valid reason. Because of human nature and cities.
Also, the reality within my reach.
I find that after watching such a profound French film, I also have a bright side of wanting, even cravings. The ever-changing colors, and my favorite "Legal Blonde", the sky is pink, like the simple and satisfying hue in the eyes of colorblind patients.
When I first started watching it, I was in a relaxed mood. There is nothing more boring than four women frequently meeting and talking about men, sex and life, but it can make you happy in a different way, and watch it with joy. . I was dazzled by all of Samantha's peculiar encounters and the peculiar ways of having sex that followed. This daring woman attracts me far more than that. I think about the four women with their own temperaments, but my favorite is not Carrie, the absolute heroine, but Charlotte and Saman. sand. In fact, these two people are also two absolute opposites, one yearns for marriage and family, refuses to expose promiscuity, dresses elegantly, and is a real high society. A real public relations master who only has sex but not feelings, is strong and coquettish and despises marriage and loyalty, but they are the women who move me the most. They live in harmony and co-prosperity, and are equally persistent in bravery, probably because of the two extremes they represent, the contradictions and in-depth discussions that are often full of in private gatherings. In contrast, Kerry, who acts as a leader and a clue, is much bleaker. This woman is the cause and the end of everything. She has the most expressions and the most reasonable and valuable love, but in the love corner of these four women The foot is increasingly showing the admittedly artificial side, but I swear that I will never exclude her taste for fashion and the insight and divergent thinking of a writer. Melanie, maybe it's because I watched her movies when I was a child, which made people impressed by her cleanliness when she was a nanny, how she was sometimes inferior and sometimes rational, as if I could see myself, her love It is destined to be the most plain, returning to the family, husband and child, but I will not cry for her steadfastness, although I bless her, in the swaying Manhattan of New York, she is the first to find a Chinese-style love life.
A poet said that what makes people despair in winter is not the wind and snow, the wind is such a melodious music, the snow is such a graceful dance, and what makes people feel desperate is its coldness and dead silence. Perhaps, the last winter of the story itself is a foreshadowing of asking for warmth, a fireplace, a coat, and the embrace of a lover, there is a kind of hope and beauty, and it also heralds the end of an era of debauchery and frivolity. Everyone chooses their destination and is passive Whether it is active or active, the story seems to end in a helpless voice. If, like American dramas, there is a theme before each episode, I will define each day, and today is called the time gap. Only time is the most essential state of life. This reminds me of a sentence my head teacher said in my sophomore year of high school when I was confused about everything that will be remembered for the rest of my life; time is the medicine that heals everything, and I imprinted it on forever like hearing a blessing. In my mind, today just confirms that whether it is in the past or in the future, I will never forget, it is time that brings about forgetting, missing, joys and sorrows, all feelings are actually derived from what we have experienced and will experience, and time, It is the link that truly connects the past, present and future.
From the first season to the sixth season, I saw the time gap. The sixth season took a touching route. It is true that every story has an ending. What is the ending? Is it the end of the previous paragraph or the reincarnation of the next paragraph. . But I clearly heard the end of the story, the confession of the New Yorker who fell from the Manhattan building; it used to be the most exciting and crazy city, but now I can only smoke by the open window, New York is over, really It's over, yes, the people here are not fun at all, why is this, oh my god, I'm so bored that I want to die, and then, she really fell off the building in the face of people who didn't have time to read it. Maybe, she is really afraid that everyone has an ending, and even the most insufferable women have to lower their standards, because of time and years, writing this, I suddenly feel that this is a women's drama.
Film critics say that its creative shooting deviates from the original author and the center of the novel, making it a tool to promote comradeship and sexuality, and does not express the author's true thoughts. When I saw it, I sighed, why every time I found the truth, I kept getting farther and farther away from her. I even thought that this might also be a reality I imagined, and no one actually knows the reality. I also began to reflect, I love watching "Sex and City" so much, and I have tacitly agreed that most of the concepts and spirits in it are contrary to the values ​​and cultural fundamentals of an ideal Chinese, but, whatever, like is like, Love Charlotte, I always thought she was the most perfect woman in the whole show. This little woman with big round eyes fascinated me as soon as she appeared, as if the sun would be there wherever she was. If this is the embodiment of the American spirit, I have to admire the spirit of the United States.
After today, I decided to watch it again to commemorate a good time. Of course, I am selfish, that is, all English audio-visual, listening and learning English, by the way, to find an excuse for unlimited sweets. Perhaps, I want to use it to motivate myself, and constantly feel the courage and beauty of life.
If a woman has Charlotte's beauty and innocence, Kerry's fashionable humor, Samantha's free and easy self-confidence, and Melanie's indifference, what kind of life will she have? The answer is: there is no such good thing in the world.

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Sex and the City quotes

  • Charlotte: I read that if you don't have sex for a year, you can actually become "revirginized".

  • Charlotte: Can you have an affair with your own husband?