man's character

Timothy 2022-04-20 09:01:44

Two years ago, I saw a piece of news saying that when Jacky Cheung was discussing the shooting of an advertisement with an advertiser, someone at home called and said that his daughter wanted to see him very much. Jacky Cheung immediately stopped the negotiation of the advertisement and rushed home to stay with his daughter. Therefore, he lost the opportunity to earn 5 million.
As a result, I have a lot of good feelings for Jacky Cheung. I think this man has a really beautiful heart.
Later, I went through his resume and checked his friends' eyes, and learned that he is a person who pays more attention to family than career. He said his favorite place is home. He has been out for 20 or 30 years, and there are few scandals. He defended his family with his actions and character. He loves his family more than anything.
In fact, when money is enough for the family, trying to earn it is just a strong manifestation of selfish desire, not a manifestation of responsibility. I sincerely appreciate Jacky Cheung, a man with a clean and bright heart. They can give everything for their family, and they can give up everything they have for their family.
I think Jacky Cheung, who has gone through the world, already understands very well what is the most important thing in life, so that he can give up 5 million so calmly and go home to accompany his daughter. For Jacky Cheung, compared to 5 million, the daughter's inner feelings are the most important. Such a soft-hearted father who can perceive the needs of his children will bring them things that billions of dollars of money cannot buy in the future: physical and mental health, good character, firmness and integrity, optimism, and even kindness and compassion. . For us people, these are the real treasures that are priceless. However, now many parents have forgotten, or have never understood.
Also as a daughter, how much I envy, and how much I long for, to have such a father. In his spare time, he focuses on our physical and mental health, rather than ignoring our feelings. As a result, we have many physical and mental defects. When we grow up, it is difficult and painful. I have never received correct guidance and teaching on the road of psychological growth, and I completely relied on my own perseverance and understanding to reverse the situation and change my attitude towards life. When I was finally able to look at many things in this world in a positive way, I was shocked to realize that the attitudes and loving attention parents gave to their children when they were young will directly affect the children's outlook on life and values ​​in the future. This outlook on life values ​​directly reflects a person's attitude towards life. If this attitude towards life is negative and has not been properly adjusted, it will inevitably affect his sense of existence as a human being, and various pains and sorrows will follow one after another, and will be inseparable from the whole life. Then he will hurt his next generation invisibly like his parents did. And so on and on. I can't help but sigh and rejoice that I can redeem myself, and those who cannot rely on their own strength to achieve redemption, how desolate and desolate they must be. To this kind of desolation and sadness, I still have a lot of sympathy in my heart!
Based on this, I was moved by the film "Ip Man" and the warmth of the family in the film. In particular, this is not an ordinary person. I think it is precisely because of this that Ye Wen has such a profound influence in the martial arts world. How can a person who has no sense of responsibility for his family achieve such a great career? These truths are obvious, but unfortunately, there are still many men who do not understand, or do not want to understand at all.
At the beginning of the first part of "Ip Man", a martial artist opened a new martial arts hall and went to see Ye Wen for a test. At that time, Ye Wen's family was eating, and Ye Wen smiled and said, "I'm eating, can I compare it another day." The martial artist refused, so Ye Wen had to say, wait for me to finish the meal, and invite the martial lion to dine together. Seeing this, I think Ye Wen is really the most lovable and respectable man in the world. In his heart, eating with his family comes first, and everything else comes after. Only such a person can have a vast world and tolerance in his heart.
In the second part of "Ip Man", Sammo Hung competes with Ip Man in martial arts. Ip Man asks him: Do you think it's more important to eat with your family, or to have a showdown with me? Sammo Hung turned to look at his wife and children and asked them what they wanted to eat. His children happily said they wanted ice cream. He said, I will take you to eat ice cream after dinner. His children jumped for joy. A rare smile appeared on Hong Jinbao's face. Suddenly, I was moved to tears. These warm and ordinary scenes, I have never had.
At the end of the film, Ye Wen defeated the boxing champion. A reporter asked him, what do you want to do most now? "I want to go home the most now," he said. He dragged his tired body and ran all the way home, until he saw his wife and children, and then he showed a happy and contented smile. In his heart, home is his greatest comfort and support, a place where his spirit can be sublimated. He owns the whole world because of them. He has not only great righteousness, but also small righteousness in his heart. His great righteousness is composed of these countless small righteousnesses. He knew that he himself was first and foremost a husband and father. This is where I am most touched and admired by him.
In this world, all the grand and mighty scenes, all the lofty competitions, even the supreme rights, are beyond the reach of going home to eat with the family.
In the two films before and after "Ip Man", the director has deliberately rendered this point. I think this should be one of the reasons for the success of this film. He let the grand masters of martial arts not only show their fists and feet, he restored them to the mortal world, and then let them show the lofty beauty of human nature on the mortal body. Even the vulgar warrior, Jin Shanzhao, has a gentle side because he married a wife and had children.
I really love the movie "Ip Man", and even the man Ip Man, because he showed me the character of a man. Not only is a grandmaster who has established a wide range of influence in the martial arts world, a martial artist who wants to fight for dignity for his compatriots, he is also a good husband and a good father. He had a broad heart, integrity, tenacity, humility and gentle character. He has a sense of responsibility, and he has a heart to take responsibility for his family, friends, even the nation and the country.
In Ye Wen, he has almost all the good qualities of a man. So real, like the big brother next door, you can say hello to him, you can even sit down and have tea with him. The brilliance in his humanity subtly infects and illuminates you, allowing you to see what is true unyielding and dignity.
Today's women, looking for a partner, are often measured by their financial status. In fact, money and status are the most unreliable things, and there is no guarantee that they will be lost one day. And the despicableness of human nature cannot guarantee that this man and the money in his pocket can really be enjoyed by you for a lifetime.
Man, the most important thing is character. With character, he will not let his wife and children feel wronged, and even if life is poor, he can make his wife and children feel at ease. With character, he will not let his wife have emotional worries and troubles, because his life is like sunshine, clean and bright, without a trace of dirt. Character makes men have a sense of responsibility, benevolence, uprightness, honesty, and progress. Just like Ye Wen, it makes the family feel at ease and makes everyone admire.
In reality, if you meet such a man, no matter what, just grab it and hold on tight. Because of his character, he will shine brightly in the future, and that light will warm your heart and your whole life.

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  • Alysa 2022-03-26 09:01:06

    No 1 is good-looking, the final boss is European and American, and the martial arts aspect is far worse than the Japanese; Ip Man is facialized; Huang Xiaoming is really in charge of 2;

  • Asha 2021-12-17 08:01:09

    This year I saw the best blockbuster now. Worship Hong Jinbao on the ground, Lord Hong is so awesome and gorgeous! Only Hong Ye vs. Donnie Yen is worth the fare, not to mention there are other surprises!

Ip Man 2 quotes

  • Wong Shun Leung: Master, you really can fight ten men at once.

  • Mr. Miller: Go home, boys!