The color of the film is very bright, exciting, and large blocks of color, but the suffering, sadness, heaviness, gloom and desolation of life itself are pervasive.
Most of the time I thought this was another gloomy and decadent Spanish film, but in the second half, we felt that the single mother who experienced the pain of losing her child was so tenacious, stoic, tolerant, kind and fraternity .
Her feelings for Rosa exude the brilliance of great women and motherhood, her forgiveness (the death of her son or her), respect (admiration for the profession), pity (private life is messed up), and equal treatment Friendship is touching.
The so-called, everything about the mother is probably the director's attempt to praise or be amazed by a woman's admiration for the ability of tolerance and love for all strong women.
Rosa is so simple and kind, but after all, she is too shallow in the world and has a reluctant understanding of love. She finally got AIDS herself, and the child she gave birth does not know whether it is infected or not. This is probably difficult for us to understand. Since life is so hard , why continue a misery gene?
A Yue's character design and performance are so contagious. This is a moving human figure that can automatically emit happy shock waves. The debut of the first neutral person in this film also drives the subsequent plot, and pays more attention to the spiritual world of the transgender group.
So when the heroine's ex-husband, Lola, appeared for the first time in women's clothing, the whole film suddenly splashed and swayed. At this time, the proposition that the father who opened the film's son has been asking who is who is who is the man, only wakes up like a dream.
Being obsessed with the values of transvestites or transgender people, or the excavation of the spiritual world of an alternative group of gender-confused cognitions, is not the gist of the film. The director did not try to explain or even help you try to forgive anything, that is none of your business. It's your own superiority and common sense. From the film's point of view, that group is natural, free, and a kind of life choice. Whether you are bizarre, or you pretend to understand, they are all products of free will.
So A Yue is so optimistic, sincere, and calm about his prostitutes and plastic surgery, even though life has given him most of the punches and kicks, he still faces it with splendor.
That's why Lola was so rambunctious, the heroine was pregnant or left because he started to put on breasts, and later, got AIDS, enlarged Rosa's belly, stole Ayue's money, and went to cherish her hometown by herself, but the film does not target He makes no moral judgments about his sexuality, and also gives very flat forgiveness.
Why is it so touching? Probably because the heroine saw that Lola was dressed as a woman, she was very sad and angry, and she cried bitterly. Laura knew that she was dying soon, and she just calmly greeted her to come and sit. The hostess sat down obediently and told him that they had had a child and had died. At this point, the purpose of the heroine's coming here is revealed. The audience was also relieved. The hostess finally said, "I'm sorry. That's both a mother's deep self-blame and a confession to a lover (even if it's an asshole).
Why is it so touching?
Probably because there is such a deep affection in the world, such a great maternal light.
Why does a film have such a powerful force?
The story is well told and the characters stand up, that's the premise. The story is told with suspense, layers, affection and height. The characters stand up, they must be the tenderness or weakness, the goodness or the devil that we all have in our hearts. He cannot be an empty concept, he must be presented layer by layer in the narrative. What is touching is that, on the edge of the limits of your emotional and experiential cognition, and within range, you are amazed and amazed. Heroes like this, tragic like this, tolerance like this, comprehension like this.
Can tolerance and love save the world? I'm afraid it can't. It can only save your present moment. You are alive at the moment, and your heart is full of sublime feelings. You don't need to touch anyone, you just need to be alone and peacefully.
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