He was a butler in an international diplomatic hall in the United Kingdom. In the precarious period of World War II, he knew the meaning of his work. And she is a new housekeeper. As the days get along, she is kind and won his favor. Although she repeatedly revealed her true feelings, her gestures revealed her love. But at every emotional juncture, he forbears his own emotions, and his love for her turns into a story buried in silence.
She reluctantly bid farewell to this fruitless love and went away to marry a woman. At that time, the two met again, and the love in their hearts was still unspeakable, and the deep thoughts turned into a goodbye blessing at the station.
His concealment of his emotions was vivid and vivid, even when she told him that she was going to marry, she couldn't let him show her love. He only said a blessing and matched with an embarrassing smile.
Why does he do this?
I guess it's a perfection mentality because it's not sure if it's right to show love (and work is always right) so he always chooses what he's sure is right to do.
Why not be sure?
First, I'm not sure whether love is appropriate in such a working state.
Second, I'm not sure if I really love her, even if there are emotional ups and downs, but I'm not sure if the ups and downs are love.
Third, I'm not sure how long this emotion can last. If I show love, will it hurt the other party?
In the face of uncertain love and the choice between other things, he restrained his emotions.
Love is inherently an uncertain thing. It is difficult to define what love is. It cannot be compared with work. Yes, if you miss some people, you will definitely lose something, but it is uncertain whether you like these things in the end; but the ideal of life is to be sure of what you like, and if you miss these things, you just go. the meaning of life.
This is his mode of thinking, and it is the mode of thinking of many people. But even though he restrained himself at the time, he couldn't eradicate the emotion in his heart, so that this emotion would exist in his heart for many years, and I felt bad for him.
View more about The Remains of the Day reviews
