There is no shortcut to happiness, only management

Keanu 2022-04-21 09:02:49

After watching this movie for the second time, I was moved, but more of a thought. A lot of details in the movie reminded me a lot. Thoughts are a bit cluttered.
Long-distance love requires the persistence of two people, Obviously. However, getting along at the beginning is very important. Whether you can persist depends on how much the two people like each other at first. If you don't have a deep relationship, don't just separate. Like Erin and Garrett when they parted, they both treated each other very much. With a certain degree of understanding, it can be said that he is in a period of love. If the two are not yet acquainted, just relying on temporary passion, mutual uncertainty and differences in living environment will make two people go further and further. How can you make a phone call, you can't see the other party's expression on the phone, or even through the voice, you can't hear the other party's mood, maybe I'm really busy to hang up your call, maybe I'm Angry, can you guess? You say I like to be sullen, I say your emotions are trivial, sensitive and suspicious. Love can't stand so many tests and suspicions, so two people who have worked so hard will let go sooner or later.
Don't just give up your career and go after each other. Two people must be independent and strong from each other together. In the past, many books have persuaded girls not to give up their careers for their boyfriends, this will only make themselves overly dependent on the man, lose their independent capital, and what’s more, they will gradually become a burden on their boyfriends. When the two break up, the girl's final situation will be tragic. At first I thought it was too extreme, but then I thought it was really good. Everyone has this kind of inferiority. What you can't get is the best, and what you get through hard work will be more cherished. If you abandon everything, it is easy to be abandoned by everything in your eyes. Happiness is not about who is attached to the other, but when two independent people come together. No matter how much you like it, it's inappropriate and in vain. So at the end of the story''Erin and Garrett are still separated, for their own spiritual independence, for their own future. Even if the last reunion is sweet, the two will cherish this precious emotional crystallization even more. Now the two people, everything is natural. If they had been forced to be together in the first place, it would definitely not have been like this.
Now that I think about it, there is really no shortcut to happiness, only two people work together, work together, and manage together. No one has the right and obligation to give up what is most important to each other, even in the name of love.

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  • Gayle 2022-04-23 07:03:05

    It's no fun at all. . . . PHONE SEX is not fun either. . . . That older sister is Samantha Who. . . . I wonder why it looks so familiar! ! !

  • Rosella 2022-03-26 09:01:08

    Because I love you, I mind this distance, and because I mind, I work hard to solve this problem. I never believed in the so-called love between the two cities, but at least I saw the real magic in the movie. I recently fell in love with watching European and American light comedies. It doesn’t take much effort and doesn’t hurt the mind. I can watch it while eating snacks. I don’t need to burst into tears, I don’t need to laugh, I don’t expect how much nutrition canned movies can provide, just let me live in the happiness of others. An hour and a half is enough

Going the Distance quotes

  • Erin: Suck my dick!

    Damon: She doesn't have a dick.

    Erin: Yes I do! And you can put your mouth on my penis!

  • Dan: When I suck my dick, I lie on my back, I throw my legs over my head.

    Box: You suck your own dick?

    Dan: Yeah.

    Box: You cut your own hair and you suck your own dick. You're like a Swiss army knife.