don't tell her

Jarrod 2022-04-23 07:03:19

It is quite satisfactory, with real and touching details, as well as parts that are inconsistent with us in the East. The feature of the Chinese director's work is that although the film is about the life and stories of the East, and it is indeed an adaptation of his own experience, the Western way of thinking And the perspective will still be revealed naturally. In addition, the acceptance of Eastern values ​​and the dominance of Western thinking make the expression lack of "advance with the times" fluidity... Although it is a sad story background, there is no lack of humorous expression in the presentation. For example, the scene of going to the grave and the scenes like wedding games and social gatherings, the director did not make a rough and distinct contrast in the expression of the boundaries of life and death, but mixed them together to show them more real. When the family went to the grave, the family was busy preparing, and grandma was talking about asking grandpa to bless the size. Hou Haohao's tears also reflected the repressed pain of a group of relatives who knew it. The acting skills of the actors are still relatively real and natural, especially the grandma and Billy, the morning exercise together, the conversation and hug at the end and other opposing scenes are very rich and moving. The most fortunate thing is that the director did not praise or criticize when showing the two values. Instead, it is relatively unbiased to show the understanding and reflection of two completely different values ​​from the perspective of different characters, leaving the audience to think about the emotional fetters and resonance of the characters. The end shows the follow-up of the director's own experience, which is more warm and moving.

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  • Angelica 2022-04-24 07:01:16

    The best Chinese film this year is not a Chinese film. It is really ironic to think about it. Mainland directors have made Chinese stories like stories from another planet, while Wang Ziyi, a Chinese director, uses American thinking. Created a believable Chinese story. Unlike the Ang Lee family trilogy or Zhang Aijia's "Love and Blind Date", the director did not try to tell a unique story. On the contrary, what she told was just an ordinary story, a story that happened every day. , but he injected his own delicate creative consciousness into the ordinary plot. Through a topic carrying the cultural differences between China and the United States, he explained the touching emotional fetters in a family, and the sensationalism did not leave any traces. Very, even the ending song has hidden tears.

  • America 2022-03-25 09:01:14

    This culture shock is really familiar. I was once brainwashed by the American culture of "valuing individuals", but the words of my eldest son, "You tell her the truth is just asking for your own peace of mind, and let her take the psychological pressure on her own", which made me feel suddenly enlightened. , this is the meaning of family

The Farewell quotes

  • Jian: [Asking a second time] So, YuPing, are you still going to send Bao away for college?

  • Jian: I know it was hard. It was hard for us too.