normal person in my eyes

Aidan 2022-11-15 02:13:17

I haven't watched this kind of pure love TV series for a long time. The last time I saw it was why Sheng Xiaomo was in a hurry.

From the very beginning, the hazy beauty in the picture makes people very loving, from the hazy light, the ultra-clear body skin, to the blurred eyes of the characters

There are rich and poor, friendship, school, life, many elements in the story of Marianne and Cornell, but they are all integrated into their love, and their love has been affected by these things, but the story The whole is very moving. He is a love movie, and it is a love movie that deeply penetrates the hearts of the people. If a person does not know enough about love, he cannot understand the performance of the characters in the story.

like it very much

At first I watched it with the eyes of a genre movie, first it was an English movie, second it was in the Irish region, then it was a romance movie, I think there are differences in lifestyle and values

So I feel that the plot of this movie should not be judged solely by my own experience.

So when I first saw Cornell asking Marianne not to show or speak about their relationship in school, I thought I didn't quite understand it, maybe it's because it's a low-key relationship in schools in Europe and America?

Then when Cornell's friend said in front of him that Marianne was a poor titted ugly bitch, Cornell still refrained from making a sound, then I don't understand, if you really love someone, how can you allow it Others speak ill of her, still such vicious words

I feel that even an ordinary friend or stranger has the urge to stand up to punish evil and promote good on such occasions, let alone a lover, a lover?

When I was watching the Dallas Buyers Club, I saw a man in black silk and eyeshadow disguised as a man. I really had a physical reaction. Many people thought it was bloody and swollen when they saw the physiological reaction, but it wasn't. , I wanted to vomit, I saw a man's face, a man's torso, with a woman's dress on it, especially fishnet tights, when I was eating, my mother and wife were confused when they watched me retching at the trash can look at me

This experience left a deep impression on me

I myself often say that we need to respect others. If we understand other people’s experiences and feelings, we can understand their current behavior, so as to achieve real respect, but this feeling is not fake, I really feel sick when I see it, It's not that I want to throw up on purpose, it's not psychological, it's physical

When I see Cornell unresponsive in a situation like this, and several times, it's hard for me to respect him

Part of the reason may be the heroine. Marianne's character is too angry with me. She dares to confront the teacher directly in the classroom, dare to face the cruelty of her mother and brother at home, and express her emotions and desires without shyness in front of her lover.

But Cornell failed her again and again and pushed her away again and again. Marianne was lonely, without friends and close family members. She identified him and pinned all her heart and feelings on him. body

But he let Marianne down because of his own reasons, face, low self-esteem

Cornell also loved Marianne deeply, and when he realized that love meant more to him than his own protection, Marianne had turned away

When they were at Trinity College Dublin, the situation for the two of them was completely reversed. Marianne had a good time here, partying, making friends, having fun, going to school, having many friends, and becoming lively and enthusiastic. I read and study at my home every night, it's boring

Cornell got this kind of punishment, but the reason why he was with Marianne and left her again, I'm confused, is he not recognizing himself, or is he too obsessed with material things, or is he trying to get revenge Marianne?

Marianne became more and more depressed after his two abandonments, she gave up on herself and thought she was not worthy of love, why she tried so hard to love him, to crave his love, and finally lost, she couldn't understand , she didn't want to speculate on Cornell's malice, she could only think it was her own problem, so she gave up on herself and became an abuser

Because Cornell gave her love, she cherished it as her own life, but it was taken back, causing her self-abandonment, apparently the cause of the tragedy was in Cornell

But Cornell's problem is too complicated, and many people are reluctant to think about it, so I feel that many of the plots in this film are particularly nonsense, and it is a bad film.

Cornell's problem lies in his background and thoughts. He is a poor boy and is in a single-parent family. Secondly, he has read a lot of books, and his inner feelings and thoughts are very rich. Finally, his circle of friends in the small town is very fixed. , almost a circle from small to large

So his attitude towards Marianne is very complicated. He will constantly think about the future relationship between the two of them. On the surface, he seems to be more relaxed, indifferent, and everything is casual, but he has a keen sense of the surrounding things. Yes, I believe that a person who has read a lot of books and is smart and open is very keen, so he looks forward to the future, he pretends to be calm when things happen, and then regrets it a lot, he dare not express his anger and guilt, remorse and self-blame , are bored in the mind

So when he gets along with Marianne, he will unconsciously express his negative feelings, because he can't contain the fire, as long as there are emotional creatures, they must express them.

As long as his negativity spills over to Marian's side, it will be magnified by Marian, because he is the only concern of Marian, even if Marian is careless, it is impossible not to find it.

So they pulled each other and hurt each other in such self-protection and love feelings, and finally both of them were hit hard, depression and self-mutilation

Why do two people who love each other hurt each other?

But I want to talk about the details. First, Cornell likes to say sorry too much. He has said sorry in various scenes. Second, there are a lot of sex scenes in the picture, and the scale is very large. The male's private parts All exposed, which is not common in many movies and TV shows

Now the young generation of actors are so postmodern, it's not so embarrassing to act naked anymore, just watched Cornell's '96, Marianne's '98, wow, they're about my age, they look beautiful

Marianne looks a lot like Anne Hathaway, Anne Hathaway when she was young, really beautiful, I like her face very much, and I also say she is very beautiful

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