It's not as cool as "The World Goes to Fuck", it's more of a depression. Two ordinary people with low self-esteem torture each other because they do not have enough ability to love each other, and the factors of disparity in family background are escalating the conflict. The relatively rich may inadvertently touch the sensitive nerves of the relatively poor, and the latter may not understand the former well because of their shortcomings. That is to say, material, but also spiritual. Getting better yourself is a strategy I've always agreed with. It's certainly more exciting to have someone accompany you to get better, but most people are not so lucky. The meeting and growth of two ordinary people is not ordinary in itself. In episode 7, the mutual torture between the two begins to peak. I don't allow the situation of "I don't know what happened between us". If I don't think about it and locate the cause, how can I solve it? From the perspective of God, just like "The Notebook", the male and female protagonists are irresponsible for other partners (10 episodes are the peak), but the reality is always so helpless. "He's a bastard, but he does like you" "I don't want you to think that my personality is damaged, I'm afraid you think I'm broken" Who is not broken? How many people are in love with a person's whole? Or is it just crazy infatuation with something unreal? In episode 9, Marianne gave up on herself and said that she seemed to have left her body and no one saw her. I have seen that scene in "The Life of the Disgusted Matsuko", "EVA" and other works. A person feeling worthless is probably the most terrifying and poignant scene I've ever felt. The usual way of showing it is a woman sitting numbly and watching her body get trampled. (In episode 11, this became a problem, the heroine recalled such an unbearable time, and the hero cried bitterly without knowing that it was not his own problem) "It's obviously your own decision" You can make decisions that you regret. "Some people treat you badly, but that doesn't mean you should be treated like this." From the email exchanges between the two, I can see that the male lead is gradually growing, but the female lead begins to stagnate and give up on herself. Separated from the two places, it is impossible for the male protagonist to know exactly the situation of the female protagonist and extend a necessary helping hand. "Everything is exposed" and then the relationship is over? Isn't that what's not true? Everyone wants to show the best side of themselves to each other, and then create high expectations, then the high expectations are shattered, and then go to the other extreme and have low expectations for everyone. In fact, I was thinking, why can't I expect it exactly? How to do this? Get to know the other person deeply. The more you know about this person, the more willing this person is for you to understand him and the more accurate your expectations will be. for two With a tacit understanding, the two sides know what each other will do and think, and they are always within the expected range. Instead, they have gained the greatest sense of security for both parties. The video chat between the male and female protagonists is so warm, the female protagonist just watches the male protagonist sleep. I found out that they all say the other is smarter than they are. The male protagonist has some superficial relationships, and we should clearly know that such relationships do not bring deep satisfaction, they are just tools to make things happen because of people. Such a relationship should not have high expectations. "Some people are passers-by after all, and you can't expect to have a bond beyond blood." "You don't need to apologize" I'm lucky to have a long, close relationship. It doesn't mean that there were not many psychological problems of people in the previous society. It may be that more people's psychological problems have been discovered and paid attention to now. This is the liberation of human beings, and this is the progress of civilization. In some societies, the liberation of people is not needed, but only the tool attributes of people as social components... I used to be afraid or disdain to participate in a certain circle, but I told myself three months ago that I can no longer continue this mentality . Hope that the other party becomes better is contradictory to yourself because of the selfishness of love, especially when you are not so good, the contradiction is more acute. Regardless of whether what is said here is not good enough is material and economic, or psychological. Why have I never had anyone around me who is strong enough in both aspects? Still reading people is not enough. From the perspective of public figures, as far as I know, there are many more "perfect people" like Europe and the United States than my country. When I was young, I would often say, ah, isn't this role me? Later, with the deepening of cognition, I will only feel that various characters can only show a part of themselves, but it is true that some characters show a lot more than their own mood, such as Wilson. Film and television works provide me with a God's perspective to look at myself, which may be one of the reasons why I like to watch it. I don't think there will ever be a day when I don't think about it, how uncomfortable that would be! But thinking should not become excessive internal friction. At one stage, it is enough to get a relatively reliable answer. Accept the potential maximum cost of this conclusion and see if you can bear it. Accepting this conclusion will be completely overturned one day. This is what the philosophy of science taught me. Children's cognitive ability is not enough, or in fact, many adults are not enough. They cannot explain the misfortune and injustice they have encountered, and generally tend to think that they are not good enough and deserve it, or take revenge on society. Yes, I hate the style of the group that announces everything on the Moments. Oh, it turns out that I also hated my junior high school self. The mutual redemption of male and female protagonists and the deep spiritual connection can span time and space. "I'm with you sometimes
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