False Taoism, Walnuts, and the Heart of a Woman

Milton 2022-04-19 09:03:12

Always liked ambitious women, including what seemed to be the notorious Becky Sharp.

I've roughly read some of the reviews for Vanity Fair before watching it. All are satirizing and criticizing Becky's vanity and unscrupulousness. Of course, this has nothing to do with me. As I said, I like her.

It has always been believed that everyone's life and situation are different, so people have different so-called "three views". If you are not that special existence, you have not experienced her experience, and have no intimate experience of her thoughts and emotions, what right do you have to point fingers at other people's lives! Live like a three-eight clown! So, I just say I like it, I don't like it, and I don't ask others to be like me. And I hate to play the Taoist scholar and preach some self-righteous people to others.

As for Becky, I just try to put myself in my shoes, and my conclusion is that I still like her.

Men say they don't understand women. After reading a lot of similar texts, I gradually realized that women are very simple. Like a man, she wants to live a good life, and at the same time, she has a stronger desire than a man, that is love. For life, a woman can be strong, and in order to survive, she can endure and undertake even beyond her imagination. They may not have much strength, but they all have a heart as tough as a walnut. Even crying is screaming to catch fate by the throat. For love, women can also be very gentle. Wisdom women are all Tai Chi masters, and they are able to control rigidity and softness with ease. Stupid women are all heroines of Qiong Yao dramas, locking up the entire vast world and leaving humble love empty. (Are you living or acting, it's so funny!)

As a woman, you must learn to walk independently on the road of life. Has a thinking brain, a tough heart, and a bit of a lovely temperament.

When I was in the last tail of the university, I was a close friend. The girl I admire. Doing things in a hurry, always very busy, as if he has been running non-stop. Internships are very stressful, you can also chat with me until late before starting to prepare the report to be handed in the next day. There is no ambiguity about winning scholarships or hosting. My boyfriend was about to break up, and he immediately took the train from Wuhan to Xi'an on the same day to discuss the relationship for many years. It was also vigorous and resolute until the breakup, but it was painful but still said to let it go. Now that I have successfully entered that company, I live my own small life, still love taking selfies, love smug beauty, and still look forward to meeting love at a certain corner.

For a long time before, I thought that "femininity" was a derogatory term, along with those "little girls", "little women", and the derived "lady", "quiet" and the like. Later, I found out that when I met each of my former classmates and friends, they had a new look, like a real grown-up, a woman. And what I hear the most is the words "nothing has changed at all". The queen-like Anne in "stylista" made me re-understand the other meaning of "femininity", which is such a deterrent aura, which made me establish her as my life across thousands of mountains and rivers and across the computer screen. 's role model. I don't know what she has experienced, and I don't know if she, a foreigner, knows benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, and trustworthiness. All I know is that she really came up from this extremely cruel real world.

Faye Wong said, I am not more noble than others, but no one is more despicable.

Just be yourself. I can't talk about "individual goodness", and I don't want to "combined aid", which is what I pursue.

Don't tell me big things, I don't understand.

Both persuading and being persuaded are pretty nasty.

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Extended Reading
  • Kadin 2022-03-29 09:01:09

    I don't like the ending of the BBC movie version.

  • Jasen 2022-03-29 09:01:09

    When the movie was released, I bought the book, but I didn't finish it, and I didn't go to the movie. Saw a movie today, um, um. 2012-12-05

Vanity Fair quotes

  • Rawdon Crawley: She talks like Oliver Cromwell and thinks like Charles I.

  • Becky Sharp: I'll manage.

    Rawdon Crawley: Won't you just. There never was a woman that could manage like you, Becky Sharp.