Love is a romantic affair

Misty 2022-04-23 07:03:42

Does love begin with sex, or is sex just an expression of love? With doubts in my heart, recalling those few memorable sex scenes, I can probably summarize the changes between them. He already knew that he was in love with her, just as he was afraid of falling in love with her when he had only sex with her in the beginning. And she, enjoying everything he gave, finally faced her feelings on the ferry that left.

In the film, the most intersection between them is the black RV and the golden house. He approached her while she was leaning against the railing on the boat, he invited her into his RV, he took her to his golden house, he held her hand, he made her his lover, and she never refused. He couldn't resist her, and neither could she. Eventually she saw his RV on the ferry to France, and she couldn't resist leaving, and neither did he.

Loving her may not necessarily get her, but after getting her body, she still feels that she has given too little. Even so, he still gave her money, gave her love, and even tried his best to give her life. In fact, even if he married someone else, he would never forget his life.

She didn't understand his love. At the beginning in the golden house, she said that she liked him, and said she liked the rich man, and later she was still in the golden house. He said to her that you liked my money, and she said that I liked him. It was your money, but he broke down. He said that she didn't want her without love. She didn't understand how much this sentence hit him who lived on love. She knew in her heart that he would never quit her. And he thought that the answer against his heart would make him give up on her, but in the end he gave up on himself. He really can't quit.

Does love win or lose? If you really love it, you won't care about it. Love is a need, a giving, a request, an acceptance, a temptation, an expectation, the joy and sorrow of you and me, the possession we once had, the abandonment and perseverance of that thought, and a love affair. After the experience, You and I say goodbye, reminisce, and live our lives separately. This is love, because loss and regret in the heart will make love extra in memory.

Finally she got a call from him and he told her he still loved her. He really lived his life on love.


Yesterday you told me you were leaving
this life and it made you feel very sad
You asked me what I plan to do in the future,
I smiled and told you byebye











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  • Constantin 2022-03-15 09:01:05

    Sometimes I almost have to thank Duras for burying those things in my heart for too long. I didn't write them until I was 70 years old. Time gave them a peculiar and charming texture, ghostly and enchanting, so that the viewer could not escape.

  • Lemuel 2022-03-20 09:02:26

    First of all, to give Leung Ka Fai's body a compliment when he was young, it was bloody. Secondly, I like the words and deeds of the heroine in it, neither humble nor overbearing, gentle and elegant, which is worth learning from and imitating. In addition, it is said that Duras initially matched Agatha, but it was a pity that he did not match his age. I like the fast-edited close-ups in a few clips, the lighting is in place, and the emotions are in place. It is a movie that makes people watch very emotional.

The Lover quotes

  • [last lines]

    Narrator: Years after the war, after the marriages, the children, the divorces, the books, he had come to Paris with his wife. He had phoned her. He was intimidated; his voice trembled, and with the trembling it had found the accent of China again. He knew she'd begun writing books. He had also heard about the younger brother's death. He had been sad for her. And then he had no more to tell her. And then he told her - he had told her that it was as before, that he still loved her, that he would never stop loving her, that he would love her until his death.

  • Narrator: "Now and then I go back to the house in Sadek. To the horror of the house in Sadek. It's an unbearable place. It's close to death. A place of violence of pain of despair, of dishonour... But it's in this family's dryness in it's incredible harshness that I am the most deeply assured in myself. In the deepest of my essential certainties, all common history of ruin and shame, of love and hate is in my flesh."