Recently, I want to relax and watch some action movies, but when I get older, I find that sometimes I don’t have that cold for those fast-paced action movies, and I want to watch some soothing ones, so I chose "Working Day".
The story of the movie is a single mother, Adele, who was threatened by the escaped male protagonist Frank while visiting the supermarket with her son, and went home together. Frank decided to hide from the police in this house. But in the contact between the two parties, Adele Falling in love with Frank, who was deeply in love with his family, even wanted to escape from the United States with him, but in the end Frank still failed to escape the sanctions of the law...
Such a story, such an identity, is hard not to remind people of Stockholm syndrome. Some people may not know what Stockholm Syndrome is. It means that you have been in contact with the criminal who kidnapped you for a long time, fell in love with the kidnapper, and even assisted him in the crime.
This is actually a mentality that is not difficult to understand, just like it is often sung in love songs. Don’t say that you love me when I’m fragile. When people are fragile, they are often the easiest to be taken advantage of by emotions. Some of the emotions that run into the psychology are sincere, and some are hypocritical, which is why there is such a lyrics.
The kidnapped person may be life-threatening at any time and may be lonely and helpless. At this time, when others are good bit by bit, they may quickly occupy the heart of the kidnapped person, causing him or her to have dependence and goodwill, no matter what the other person is. Not the perpetrator.
Let’s talk about the movie first, but the heroine here is actually not that suitable for Stockholm syndrome. The main reason is that Adele is not vulnerable because of being kidnapped, but more because of her own experience, when she gave birth to her second child. , Had miscarried many times, divorced her husband, and lived alone with a son Henry. Her own painful experience prevented her from contacting others.
The male protagonist Frank was also taken advantage of. He was given a green hat by his wife and raised other people’s children. Finally, when his wife was about to go out again, he pushed his wife and his wife died like this... The children upstairs were also forgotten in the bathtub. Guan's water drowned, and Frank's luck was so bad that he was home, and the sentence was eighteen years. In fact, Frank was a man who took care of the family. In the memory, he was always the one holding the child, and it was always him who took the child at home. He was simply taken advantage of by his ex-wife.
So when Adele met Frank, his male side and his mature charm fascinated Adele more than Frank's danger (the gangster never lacks a wife for one reason).
This movie is about love. The overall plot is relatively warm. There is not much bizarre turning point. Perhaps it is also suitable for my current mentality and age. I can't stand the excessive toss. The ending of the movie is also considered a good ending. In fact, I can't talk about it. many. Then I will combine kidnapping and Stockholm syndrome to talk about true love in reality.
In reality, unless two people are very gentle, are calm about the world, and spend a lot of time with each other, the love in our society today is more like a kidnapping game, an emotional game.
Speaking of the last part of Stockholm syndrome just now, I said that regardless of whether the person is the perpetrator or not, the psychology of the kidnapped person is likely to be dependent and favorable because of bit by bit. And I have written this sentence before, when you choose to truly love someone, that person becomes the easiest person in the world and the person who can hurt you most.
The same sentence of criticism as others, other people hurt you for five points, which may be a hundred points for her or him. This is the magic power brought by love, but in turn, encouragement will also have a bonus effect.
But especially at the beginning of love, when the relationship is not stable enough, slight negative emotions will disturb the hearts of the authorities and cause great pain. As everyone knows, this is similar to kidnapping. Your heart has been tied up by the person you love. "gone.
In love, your biggest negative emotions must come from the other party, and the more depressed you are, the more vulnerable you will be. Like the victim in a kidnapping case, you will unconsciously amplify the strengths and goodness of the other party (such as in love, The other party treats you with 10 points to be sure that they like you, but at this time you will feel that 1 point is good for you is 10 minutes is good, this kind of mental state is very easy to be deceived), and even directly beautify the other party in your heart. Because in the world of love, as long as you don’t bother, in fact, there are only kidnappers and victims in the whole world.
People need to rely on when they are fragile, and when they are in pain, they need comfort. But if there are only two people in the whole world, can you choose other ways besides relying on each other?
Therefore, the blindness in love mostly arises in such voluntary kidnapping cases. Men can’t see women, and women can’t see men. Why does it seem that those who are bothered always win? That is because they have not been kidnapped. In their world, you are not the only one in their hearts, and they do not love one person with all their hearts.
Today I said a little bit of black belly, not to encourage everyone to spend their minds, but to provide a psychological context to help self-control and thinking, for your reference only.
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