Simple and comfortable interactions allow emotions to flow

Verona 2022-06-17 18:22:20

Friends in junior high school have already mentioned this film. At that time, when I was young, I didn't seem to have any insight into emotions, and I preferred sci-fi suspense and other curious and catchy stories. It just so happened that I recently saw Rohmer's color matching on various push platforms, and I became interested in watching this 1987 movie. (The reason why I started to read it, I actually felt a little bit of time passing when I was writing.)

The whole film has no sense of age at all, probably because the theme of the story has no macro background, it is just a simple story between four people in a French town, and a simple story that will happen in any time and space. To sum it up in one sentence, two men and two women swap likes (like many "smart" plots designed by soap opera writers)

The beauty of the story is that it takes place in France, a country where vacations, strikes, and leisurely comfort are at every turn. There is no ingenious plot set by force, the development of the plot depends on the talking of the protagonists, and all the development and changes are so natural.

A: Female college student B: Civil servant of the Cultural Affairs Bureau

C: D's friend (handsome guy) D: A's boyfriend

In an office area, a female college student A became attached to a civil servant B of the Cultural Affairs Bureau because of eating at a table. The two became friends and often hang out together.

"Ka": People get to know each other and interact with each other. It is so simple and simple without any utilitarian sociality. Just by getting to know, sharing life, talking, and getting along tacitly, you can get rid of the difference in status and become friends.

When B taught A to swim, he met his handsome friend C. I have a good impression in my heart, but I think that C has a good impression on me, but it is not pleasant to get along with C in reality.

"Ka": It's always a matter of perspective. I'm afraid it's not all about misunderstandings when people get along with each other. Sometimes there is only a fine line between beautiful misunderstandings and regrettable misunderstandings. The reason why B looks at C is also very realistic. The other party is handsome, has a good job, and "is the type that any woman will like". It is quite pathetic to imagine falling in love with a man with a universal framework.

B met A's boyfriend D through A. First, through A's tone, he learned that the relationship between A and D is not good, there are many contradictions, and A also has a tendency to cheat. B and D get along very well together when A goes on vacation. Even though B still likes C in his heart, he likes D again in life and has a relationship, and they agree that nothing will happen to each other.

"Ka": The awkwardness of people in love begins to be revealed. This movie, everyone else is very direct, if they like it, they like it, but if they don't like it, they give each other a chance because of reason. Only B didn't recognize his feelings in time, fell in love with C's fantasy spiritually, and was actually entangled with A's friendship, and couldn't let go and communicate with D.

Before the second vacation, A and D broke up. B realized that it was inappropriate to be with C, and chose to be with D. A and C also sparked. Finally, at the end of the vacation, four people wearing wonderful color matching stood together, A and B said their hearts, and a happy ending.

"Ka": This scene is really interesting. The pairing is exchanged, and there is no reason to give up the attachment and pursuit of feelings because of messy obstacles or embarrassment. And at the moment of unlocking all the emotions, there is no tearing, no judgment, and mutual acceptance. Perhaps this is also the reason why A and B can be friends.

Sometimes the relationship is simple, if you like each other, you can become friends or lovers. Getting along with people should be relaxed and pleasant, and let the emotions flow and interact in the emotions of the two.

France is a country with its own lazy attributes, and the whole story is driven by vacations. I once lived in a French homestay for a short period of time and discussed the topic of vacation, and my honest answer may bring them a lot of culture shock? After all, their rhythm is about three months and they are going to take a vacation. Usually, if they have any dissatisfaction, they will come to a collective strike. Fast and slow, which is better or worse is inconclusive. Find your own suitable rhythm and a comfortable mode of getting along with others. Maybe this is the main idea, right?

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Extended Reading
  • Cecile 2022-06-17 19:23:11

    The story of the sleeping girlfriend's best friend is also considered a fresh shot. Everything is familiar, and there is no play. Philosophy and literature are put aside in the lines.

  • Scotty 2022-06-17 19:00:40

    The girls' clothes are so pretty. It would be nice if the lover could really handle it as clearly as in the movie and be as free and easy as a bystander. The old man and the old man, the wife and the wife of the man. The United States and the United States share the same world.

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Boyfriends and Girlfriends quotes

  • Alexandre: If you must know, I like slender, rather tall girls.

    Lea: Blondes or brunettes?

    Alexandre: Brunettes. With smooth, light, slightly tanned skin. They really attract me. Especially when they have big eyes and silky lashes.

    Lea: Cut it out. You promised not to lay it on!

    Alexandre: I'm not laying it on! You asked what my type was! You're much closer than Adrienne to my ideal. You've always attracted me. But fate was against it.

    Lea: Fate! You control yours, don't be modest!

    Alexandre: You're wrong! I don't like to push. I'm no Romeo. The fact is, girls like me! It's given me bad habits. It can be a disadvantage. They seek me out, so I just relax. Means I don't always wind up with the best. If I like a girl, I'll meet her sooner or later... Better later then too soon. Take us... I'm glad I met you now, not 6 months ago. We're both available...

    Lea: Stop it! What's available mean? And I don't like your kind of guy. I like to be wooed!

    Alexandre: You were with Fabien!

    Lea: You should have been insanely jealous.

    Alexandre: Who says I wasn't?

    Lea: Actions talk! You should've done something wild!

    Alexandre: Let's run away. I'll kidnap you!

    Lea: That's not so wild. And I said no!

    Alexandre: I heard yes.

    Lea: It meant no.

    Alexandre: I'll think of something wilder... Come live with me! You've even got your bags! My place's too big for me alone.

    Lea: When you're alone!

    Alexandre: I'm alone now.

    Lea: I'm going to my folks'. They're expecting me.

    Alexandre: Call them back!

    Lea: They're asleep.

    Alexandre: So they're not waiting up!

    Lea: I might move in with you, but not now. We've known each other 6 months, so wait 6 more months. During that period, you mustn't date anyone else. Then maybe I'll let myself be wooed!

    Alexandre: I accept. But you mustn't date anyone, either.

    Lea: That suits me fine!

    Alexandre: 6 months is a bit long. How about 6 days?

  • Adrienne: It's funny, I can't see you a bureaucrat. That's what you are though. You should be in the arts. You never wanted to paint, or write?

    Blanche: I've no talent. Even if I did... I'm not sure I'd want to do it for a living. Art for me is pure pleasure. Contemplating... it is enough.

    Adrienne: I can understand that. It's just that... In your office, they're all bureaucrats, Real ones! It's a bad environment. All they think about is rank... climbing the ladder... spending their lives... stepping over people. They don't even think about work... much less love! I know what I'm talking about!