When I graduated from college that year, I had a fierce fight with my father before leaving home.
Beijing's summer is not hot, but Dingfuzhuang's summer is really hot. From where I live to the subway station, I have to walk through the long Dingfuzhuang East Street. I have to eat several popsicles along the way, or Spend a few bucks for a trip, but the bumps on the road always make people feel like springs, and such things are always remembered very clearly. In the evening, I buy a cold skin or a skewer at the mouth of the alley. Usually when I am about to open a beer, my dad's phone calls - "How about you, come back if you don't have a suitable job?
" For what looks like a decent job. Dad has nothing to say. Anyway, he is a teacher. Isn't it the same as doing it at home? It is estimated that let me hang out for two years. Probably my father thought so, so he never mentioned the words of a college teacher for me. Later, when I wanted to change jobs and stop being a teacher, my dad would be helpless no matter how anxious he was. Later, I said that I would quit my job and start a business. Before I could actually realize it, I just revealed my idea. Dad’s phone call came right away. I sat by the flower bed and had a three-hour phone call with him. , Talking about life and talking about ideals, both hard and soft have no results. Later, I cried and felt that he didn't understand me very much, but classmate Mao Mao was very happy and kept comforting me.
I think my dad is really not worth it. Although he silently supported me later, he still let classmate Mao Mao take advantage of it and pushed his daughter over to others.
A few days ago, when I watched "Late Spring" at the Shanghai Film Festival, I kept thinking about my dad.
Noriko's father asked her, how is Hattori? Noriko said it was good, it must be good to be a husband! Noriko's father said, Noriko, help me find a mahjong corner. There are three missing, and Noriko smiled angrily and said that the work is not finished! Noriko cooks for her father, sleeps in a bedroom with her father, and chats with her father about men. Noriko refused to marry because she was worried that her father would live alone after her marriage, and her father lied that he wanted to remarry so that his daughter would not worry too much about him.
I never talked to my dad about men or anything, and I didn't dare to joke with him. When I was a child, when people asked me if I liked my mother or my father, I said against my will that I liked both. When I was a child, I didn't get good grades in mathematics, and I especially looked forward to my dad's business trip in the days when the test papers were distributed. Really, my dad's eyes stared at me and I panicked. I went all the way to the university in this way. I didn't expect that the person who called my dormitory every day was not my mother, but my father. At that time, I really felt that I had never talked to him so much in my entire life, and I had to make up for it on the phone from the university, although those words were repeated every day. Have you eaten, are you okay, the money is still there? Is there any.
My family and Noriko's family have almost nothing in common except that we both help Dad pour wine. But "the fate of having a daughter is to marry a daughter." Like Noriko, I got married at the age of twenty-seven or eight. When I was watching a movie, I followed Noriko's father and seriously felt how my father felt. Only then did I realize that I couldn't understand Ozu more than ten years ago. The seemingly boring homely dialogue hides such a meaningful and subtle topic. I have seen it before I have seen it, but only after I have experienced it can I have a different experience. . At that time, when I was young, I only thought about my own ideals, and I didn't care about my parents' concerns and worries.
For Mao Mao, there are two Japanese movies that are particularly important to his role as a father. He himself admitted that after watching "White Rabbit Candy", he really no longer rejected the reality of being a father psychologically. The sleeping baby looked at it for a long time and said, if we hold the wrong baby, can you change it?
As for me, if you are also a daughter, before this year's Father's Day, take a look at "Late Spring".
Yasujiro Ozu, who never married in his life, Setsuko Hara, who never married in his life, and Kasa Chijo, his adorable father. Such an old-fashioned theme is peaceful on the surface, but it makes people feel turbulent in the heart.
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