I only watched the story because I knew the plot, so the heroine and gerry started quarreling.
In fact, the feeling of being lost in love and the death of a loved one is quite similar. It is because the one you love is gone. Suddenly, all the memories between the two people have to be borne by one person. Only one is that you still want to redeem it, or there is hatred, and the other is that you can't do anything.
Did the hostess behave excessively within three weeks of Gerry's death? Don't be so cold and exaggerated. Because the feeling of losing what you love is like this, you will feel that your heart has been broken into pieces, and you have to pick it up by yourself and think of a way to glue them together. We are different from the hostess in that we can't hide at home and order takeaways every day. We have to pretend to be a smiling face, and then any spark can blow up the embankment of our tears.
The kind of suffocating pain. You will think, this kind of memory is not worth it, good or bad, I don't want it.
There are two types of treatments for losing a loved one. Except for these two, the others are all imaginary. The comfort of relatives and friends, long-distance travel, busy work, or staying in super lively and joyous places, these are all like short-acting painkillers. After a short period of calm, it will be a backlash composed of huge despair and emptiness. .
Method one: find another love.
It is to divert attention. This is the most effective and fastest. But the difficulty is very high. The difficulty is, first, such a person is hard to find; second, when you are vulnerable, it is difficult for you to tell if what you are catching is right. Usually, 99% is wrong.
Method two: time.
Most of us can only rely on this only way when we encounter pain. Including the heroine in the film. Some people say that the duration of the relationship is three months. In other words, if you lose love, it will take three months to ease, so don't expect a miracle during this period. Don't expect a person who is dying in pain today will be alive and joking tomorrow.
In fact, I think that three months is just the shortest period, and many people need a longer period of time. After this period of time, we did not forget, but this sadness will no longer cause us to suddenly collapse, suddenly cry, and suddenly be knocked down...
If you have lost the people you love, please wait patiently. At the first moment when you feel desperate and painful, destiny prepares you for a new life and hands all this to time.
So, please wait patiently, time is on the road with the peace you want.
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