Girl, don't wait for a man to redeem you

Elfrieda 2022-07-28 20:35:03

With my boyfriend, it took 3 days to finish the show. At the beginning, I didn't realize how paranoid Joe was. I just thought he was good at peeping and liked to observe others from the details. In the play, Joe's inner monologue runs throughout. At first, I didn't even feel that I was following in his footsteps to see the world. The knowledge of Beck himself and the views on the friendship of the women around Beck are all influenced by Joe's first-person self-report. It was not until he began to imprison Chris, paranoidly thinking that he was the only person who was good to Beck, that he gradually walked out of the hints of his self-reported content and began to watch the world in the play from a third perspective.

As the relationship between Joe and Beck continues to get closer, Beck's personal life status and background information are gradually being disclosed. The more I learned about Beck, the more I felt that the power of this show was not in shaping a perverted man like Joe, but in shaping a character like Beck that is very similar to too many girls. This kind of girl leads a glorious life, with a little talent that will not allow herself to be buried in mediocrity, but not so much ability to make herself stand out from all beings. I always want to climb to the top. Although I can see the results with a little effort, the level of effort cannot support myself to achieve too much. To put it bluntly, the willpower and talent are not enough, but the ambition is too big. This kind of girl, even if she realizes that she is deeply behind bars, is unwilling to break through the siege on her own. Instead, she wants to wait for a prince charming to fall from the sky and lift herself up from her ordinary life to the kingdom of happiness.

For Beck, Chris, Joe, father, professors, and psychologists are all people she thinks can redeem herself. Chris is his own money redeemer; the professor is his own talented redeemer; Joe is his own lonely redeemer; his father is his own family redeemer; the psychologist is his own lust redeemer. She traveled among all kinds of men and did not live the life she wanted. After Beck realized his problem, he decided to run away from some people, asking for strength from the bottom of his heart. She bravely broke free from the professor's suppression and decisively left Joe to find herself. However, for a person who has long been eager for others to save herself, she still repeats the same mistakes in the matter of loneliness and takes the initiative to retrieve Joe. In this most critical escape, she failed, and the ending was destined to be cruel.

Wu Zhihong once wrote in "Why Love Hurts" that aging, death, freedom, and loneliness are the four major themes of life. Many times, we are afraid of facing these four major themes and turn our attention to the opposite sex. In my body, I long for love to save myself. To put it more deeply, "we try to find the meaning of life through love, and escape the original meaning of life."

When we place our hopes in life on others, our own lives have no value, and happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy have become charity from others. When he treats you well, you are ecstatic; when he treats you badly, you are like an ice room. This life-saving straw will tie you to death. What's more frightening is that sooner or later, the person who left this straw will be dragged down, and eventually he will cut the straw and leave you.

Those girls who are not so happy, don't wait for a man to redeem you! You must save yourself.

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