2020 New Year's Message: Create, otherwise it will become a scourge of society

Amara 2022-03-21 09:02:58

The first working day of 2020, good evening everyone?

I chose a movie to watch at random last night. I didn't expect it to be a movie especially suitable for the New Year . It 's relaxing, healing, and it exposes the unavoidable problems in life. The ending is warm and uplifting.

This movie is "Where'd You Go, Bernadette" starring Kate the Devil . It is very suitable for people with mid-life crisis , old mothers raising children , and people who want to gain positive energy .

The protagonist Bernadette is a housewife, rich and free , and has a sensible daughter. Her husband is an excellent engineer, and a product developed by Microsoft was bought by Microsoft.

In the words of the female neighbor: "With the assets of Microsoft, living in a 9,000-foot house" , it can be said to be a winner in life.

However, she is not happy at all!

She can't communicate with anyone other than her daughter and her husband, does not participate in any social activities, and can't get along well with her neighbors. She relies on a virtual assistant far away in India to help her with her daily needs. She is always complaining about everything around her. Anxiety...so much so that her husband thought she was mentally ill .

Until she reunited with an old friend whom she hadn't seen for many years, she kept talking to the old friend about her life and her anxiety over the years, and the old friend broke her predicament with just one sentence:

"Go to work

People like you came into this world to create

go create

Otherwise, you will become the scourge of this society."

Then we learned that the heroine once had a glorious past , and she was a talented architect .

But because a piece of work was destroyed, he chose to quit the construction industry , returned to the family, and devoted all his energy to taking care of his daughter with birth defects.

However, genius is genius.

Difficulties won't break her.

Mediocrity will.

That's why she suffers so much.

Although you and I are not geniuses, the meaning of life is nothing more than this :

Go find what you love and put all your energy into creating consistently! Your value never depends on whose children, partner, or parent you are. But yourself, who is it, and how do you define it?

What should be engraved on your epitaph? Do you spend your life doing what you love and achieve something?

If not, it's not too late to start now. From this moment on, is the earliest moment of the rest of your life.

Later in the story, when all the conflicts escalated, the heroine secretly escaped before the whole family prepared for the Antarctic trip.

She went to the Antarctic appointment alone, saw the beautiful scenery , met strange travelers , and had no intention of knowing that the design of the new Antarctic research station was being tendered, so she took the initiative to ask Ying to run to bid .

You can see that the heroine's eyes are shining again .

Everything that once made her anxious is no longer important. In order to go to the Antarctic Station, the wisdom teeth that she has not dared to remove for many years can be handled by the veterinarian.

People who go all out have the most power.

The heroine once said that she hopes to have 18 miracles in her life. The first two miracles are her two works, and the remaining 16 miracles are all reserved for her daughter.

And at the end of the movie, the daughter told her: "Do what you want, I don't want to monopolize your remaining 16 miracles."

I hope each of us can live our own miracles.

In addition, the outfit of the big devil in this movie is so good-looking, and the basic model wears the style of "French First Lady". The photos when I was young are even more amazing, and standing with my husband is like a pair of people.

There is nothing to say about the acting skills, every expression is a drama , turning the rotten into a magical, which improves the texture of the whole film a little bit (the domestic actors with facial paralysis quickly come to learn).

It's the beginning of the new year, cheer yourself up with a good movie. New year, come on duck!

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Extended Reading
  • Dashawn 2022-03-25 09:01:18

    The virtual assistant of the Russian gangster, used up 16 miracles at a time, the old enemies hope to exchange each other's lives, when an artist is not creating, she/he is a serious social hidden danger...I heard Cyndy Lauper's "Time after Time" again , contemporary elite marriage parent-child fairy tale, very good

  • Icie 2022-03-25 09:01:18

    Director of "Love at Sunset". A story from a female perspective shot by a man. The architectural genius Bernadette moved to an unfamiliar city in a fit of anger. Hiding from neighbors is like hiding from pests, best friends are teenage daughters, workaholic husbands seem to exist only in companies and TED talks. Daily voicemails written to myself while wearing headphones, outsourcing all chores to virtual assistants as far away as India. On the eve of the family trip, her husband thought she was so anxious that she was about to commit suicide, and brought her to a lunatic asylum with a psychiatrist. Bernadette escaped by jumping out of the window and embarked on a journey to Antarctica alone that made her anxious Going to work the next day. Even put on the usual TED tone to comfort her daughter: The most important thing is that it's not your fault. She pushed away the people who wanted to help her (sent her into the lunatic asylum), we don't have to look for it, she will return to our lives when she thinks about it.

Where'd You Go, Bernadette quotes

  • Bernadette: I just need you to know how hard it is for me sometimes.

    Bee Branch: What's hard?

    Bernadette: The banality of life. But I retail the right to be incredibly moved by those little things no one notices. For better and worse.

  • Bernadette: I'll figure it out. I mean, that's what insomnia is for.