Refuse

Jules 2021-11-17 08:01:28

Every extra day you live is an extra day. But what about our feelings?

Life is constantly evolving, constantly providing more possibilities. It always makes us deflect the sword peak when the mountains and rivers are exhausted, and find another exit, even if we turn our heads and look again, Baiyun Canggu, things are human and non-human. Without mental stimulation, the emotional desert continues to expand, trying to discover new oasis. "Days on the Clouds" said: "'Everything will be okay' is a very resentful thing", this is a fact without a discount. Everything will be okay. This makes us very discouraged and frustrated. Even if we refuse to let ourselves go, life will not care about you, whether it is you curled up in a corner and weeping and sighing, or shouting hoarse in the sun. What people have to do is to change positions under various conditions, and everything is measured by the quality of survival and survival, whether right or wrong, good or bad.

Looking at it this way, for a person's life, everything in the world is forgivable and should be forgiven. Among all living beings, our grief is really insignificant, as long as the time is long enough, everything can really be washed away. Even if you feel that you can't wash it away, this world and the people in this world will still ignore you, they treat your grief as nothing. This makes us very frustrated, everything will be fine, in fact, life's ultimate compromise with reality. Because if you really refuse to let yourself go, you can only die sad and gloomy, but this kind of death is often considered incompetent and dull by others and even the world. "Monster" is a living example, Irene said in the last phone call: "People will always figure out a way, but I can't. So I am going to die." Seeing this, do you feel distressed? The more sincere you are, the more vulnerable you are to fatal injuries, and your sincerity is almost absurd and boring in the eyes of the world. In the face of real life and life, everyone is a cynic.

The increase in the threshold of people in life is also a little progress with the tempering of the years. When I was young, my ideals in life were very simple. My lifelong pursuit was just a few bananas. But now the threshold has been raised. Bananas can no longer stimulate my desires. I need more. We probably always have this feeling in our lives and in love. The original sentence "I love you" can make each other's tears flow, but now it can't reach the realm of tears. But the fact is that if lovers cry after they say "I love you", it won't be a solution in the long run. This is the increase in people’s threshold. Because of this increase, many good things have been unforgivably ignored by us. The happiness and touch that others can see, including a greeting, a hug, and a kiss. These are originally love and show love. The thing is now just a concrete action. Should we blame anyone?

Irene died in the raising of the lover's threshold. She frantically created various material and spiritual foundations for the person she loves most. She asked for nothing, just to be happy, but how could human desires be permanently satisfied? Woolen cloth? As a result, the opponent's threshold keeps rising, and she refuses to let herself go. We can think of the end when we see the beginning. Irene died in the defense of love, died in helplessness and despair, died in the disdain of others but also died in glory. Have you ever been familiar with the feeling that you love someone at all costs and consequences, without even thinking about whether your actions are meaningful?

When I watched "Monster", I was very thankful that she died because I was afraid of seeing a vulgar story. In fact, I have always wanted Irene to die standing instead of kneeling to live, because her love is so mean and even vicious to me. If everything gets better and everything fades, then those of us who have worked hard or are using it How can the beloved forgive the ruthlessness and fickleness of this world? But when we return to reality, how many people call on one person to love to death for another person? How many people agree with this hopeless dedication and steadfastness? How weird people are, always claiming that they can’t do things that they don’t even want to do. Or only those who dare to give everything for their true feelings can bring a glimmer of light and shock to a dull life.

Don't raise the threshold, always know how to be moved and taste; don't let yourself go, always know to persevere and be serious; don't expect everything to be better, and always tell the world that we have no retreat except for defending love.

This desperate and deep-rooted love can only be understood by those who have experienced it.

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  • Dominique 2021-11-17 08:01:28

    not understand. . Why is Theron's heart-wrenching performance only 7.5 points. not understand. . The last pain I wanted to see but couldn't recognize was only 7.5 points.

  • Dean 2022-03-26 09:01:04

    40 Love conquers all.

Monster quotes

  • Aileen: [Aileen has reluctantly forced a man into the woods after he discovered that she has a gun] I can't...

    Horton: You don't have to. You're just having a hard time.

    Aileen: No! I can't let you live!

    Horton: Oh God... my wife... my wife... my daughter's having a baby.

    Aileen: SHUT THE FUCK UP! Oh God... oh God I'm sorry...

    [She shoots him]

  • Aileen: Everybody just thinks I'm this bad shitty fucking person, and all I'm fucking tryin' to do is survive, you know?

    Thomas: I know. I know what you do for a living. It doesn't bother me. I know you didn't dial it up on a goddamn telephone. That's where you landed. That's what you had to do. What you're feeling right now is just guilt, over something you had absolutely no control over. You know how many of us came back from the war? And almost killed ourselves because we felt exactly the same thing you do, right now.

    Aileen: Yeah?

    Thomas: Yeah. And they'll never get it. They'll never get it now, they never got it then, and they sure as hell won't get fucking circumstance!

    Aileen: Fuck, man, circumstance, that's exactly it, that's exactly it. You know I feel like I never even had a fucking choice.

    Thomas: You never did. But you gotta live. You gotta live.