A cup of warm tea in the cold winter

Adonis 2022-03-22 09:02:25

I didn't feel much when I watched the introduction.
When watching the movie poster, I fell in love with the light comfort and warmth.
While watching the movie, I admit, the opening music hits my heart and makes me unable to concentrate.

I like that in this kind of music, there are light pictures and beautiful sounds, with a touch of sadness and helplessness, as if standing quietly in the corner and watching the expressions on everyone's faces.
As a patient with Asperger syndrome, Adam's IQ and EQ are absolutely inversely proportional. He can memorize complex celestial theories and has an extraordinary memory, but his social skills are almost zero. He was at a loss in the crowd and didn't know how to express it properly. In the field he was familiar with and good at, he was full of energy, unaware of the surprise on other people's faces. He would sit on the steps in front of the house and watch People come and go without any reason. It's not that he can't love, he uses the simplest and most straightforward way to convey his love. For a person who has no sense of romance and doesn't know what sweet words are, a carefully prepared slideshow of the stars, a cup of hot coffee in front of the door in the morning, a sudden and passionate kiss, the snow in the sky and the cold night hidden in the arms A handful of roses is the truest confession. He said what he thought, and his romance was just a natural expression of the subconscious. He's a genius, but in a world full of lies and cover-ups, he's so out of place.

A romantic, pampered only daughter, a young writer of children's literature, she is betrayed by her boyfriend and her father is in deep trouble. He didn't know how to comfort her, but just shared with her everything he knew, saw, and liked. He asked and answered straightforwardly, and moved Beth with his stubbornness, sincerity, kindness and purity. She looked at him, With doting eyes in her eyes, she took his hand and left, he was so quiet and obedient, she was angry and lost her temper at him, he quietly left like a child who did something wrong, with a distressed expression.
She loves him, but she can't afford it.
She loves him, but she still chooses to leave.
She loves him, but he never told him that he loves her, and even if he did, she didn't understand his understanding and definition of love.
She said that he was just a child, and that just need and dependence were too low and too low for love.

The film opens with Beth's monologue reverberating in the infinite starry sky, telling her favorite story about her and Adam.
In Central Park, Beth said, cute raccoons, how are they here? Adam was stunned for a moment and said suspiciously, but, but they are here.

Adam was like a little prince from outer space, like a little raccoon in New York's Central Park -- not there, but there. The little prince will eventually grow up and find a place of his own. In the beautiful mountains of California, Adam spoke eloquently about the universe and telescopes, learned how to say hello to people, and learned to take the initiative to help others. Sitting in the bright California sun, with the warm wind blowing across his face, he unfolded a new book sent by Beth, a story about a family of raccoons in New York's Central Park, namedfairy tales, Beth said, They weren't belong there, but there they were. And Adam, finally understood the meaning of the words on the small piece of paper.
"To see how far we've come". Background music "We can't go back now"
Love teaches people to grow. No need to look back, keep going.
In such a dark night in such a cold winter, with the cold fingertips brushing the keyboard, "Adam" is like a cup of hot tea, bringing warmth into my heart.
What matters is not who we have met or how we have been in love, but that we are finally beginning to understand something.
I like the faint helplessness, the little humor, the shallow sadness, and the warmth that pervades all the time.

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Extended Reading
  • Kole 2022-03-24 09:02:56

    The background music and the slightly comical actions of the protagonist for ten minutes before I was so sad that I had a stomachache almost made me burst into tears. In addition to love, the most touching thing is Adam's father-son relationship. The director is so clever that he presents directly to the audience an Asperger patient who is suddenly facing life alone, with little to no description of Adam's past. But when he crossed out the line "dad's chore" on the refrigerator after the funeral and shouted "dumb Adam" out of control, he seemed to be able to see in those difficult and fragile past, gentle and strong father and repeated bullying skinny little boys supporting each other with love all the time. Adam's space suit, the macaroni and cheese in the cupboard, a kiss without a pause, it's all beautiful. Those delicate and fragile relationships, feelings, and trusts between people are God-given hickeys on our lonely and long journey. The pilot would leave, so the little prince built the bridge to b612 alone.

  • Ora 2022-01-09 08:02:12

    Don’t we all pretending to be normal every day?

Adam quotes

  • Harlan: Liars is all you gonna run across in this world. A man's gotta learn the difference between just plain liars and liars worth lovin'.

  • Rebecca Buchwald: Feeling loved is very important, but loving, my precious girl, that's the necessity.