It started with a conversation with L. I asked him whether sexual maturity begins with being able to have sex, or with being able to reproduce.
Of course, I do not pursue the answer to this question, but merely ask, what is the purpose of sex.
When I was arguing with him, it was about the underage girls in the movie actively seeking sex and whether he himself was harmed. I thought it wasn't. I don't think he was harmed, provided he was able to do it and take safety precautions without causing physical damage. However, L disagreed because it was an underage girl.
For this awareness, the impulse, to the final implementation. The process is undoubtedly complicated. What is the ultimate purpose? Just an instinct. Like birth and death. The pleasure it brings to you is only the result of evolution. Instinct tells you to reproduce offspring. But people are different. People do not realize this importance. At least I don't. I believe that many people will not have such a strong urge to have a child. Intuitive feeling is a kind of pleasure.
The girl in the movie, the pursuit, is probably also this. An instinct prompted him to do it. However, he neither fully realized nor understood its meaning. So began a kind of quest, putting aside the incompleteness of his father's role brought about by his family factors and a trace of affection for the old man. The most intuitive thing is that the old man's superb skills and patience, the meticulous guidance, and the height that he finally realized.
So, you start to understand what real sex is, what real pleasure is, and it's far from the comfort you get when you're secretly squirting or constricting with psychological pressure and some risk.
What I want to say here is that I was just thinking that everyone needs a sexual enlightenment teacher, and whether this role can be replaced by a tool, thinking of this, I still think it is better for people to do it. There is no absolute reason, it would be a big proposition to really argue. At least, as a human being, it is better to be taught in the human being.
Maybe you don't understand what I said above very well. That kind of also mixed with a lot of my questions.
What I want to continue to say here is a psychological process.
Making love may be a direct manifestation of love. But what is love itself.
What I want to think about, this, is not asking for a good answer, but a kind of thinking, wanting to know what people who are mentally stronger than me think. They must know what love is.
How love is born, relying on active communication, to get a little synchronization of language, and then synchronization of behavior, and then continue to deepen understanding of each other and integrate into each other. You become stronger and more radiant as the river of time continues to flow forward. While chasing the starlight in front of him, he never let down a shadow that was always with him. this companionship. Not to follow you, not to compete for the common starlight, but when you feel confident and proud of yourself moving forward, your life is no longer single. From now on, your life and death are no longer determined by yourself, and no longer determined by external things. It lies in the two unique beautiful lives, sprinting forward, the color tends to be deep, constantly growing separately and growing together. At this point, let's call the cause of this result, and the impetus that promotes this process, love.
This is a superficial understanding of an immature me.
Under this kind of love, sex is a necessary product. As for more discussions, please join me and think more carefully inadvertently.
View more about Young & Beautiful reviews