I want to see how my mother is cured

Jaylon 2021-12-21 08:01:21

The clips of my mother running away from home are really too real and painful.. I often hear this sentence: People can change. Dad said that her mother was not strong enough, and her apparent response was to maintain order. After the accident, her life like this made my father feel that he didn't know her.. So he asked painfully if I still love you? I don't know what will happen if I don't love me? Mother did not speak, turned and left to pack her luggage.

First of all, I don't think my mother has changed or she doesn't love her anymore. Mom replied that she loves Dad as always. I believe her. It can only be said that the father did not know that his mother would treat the child bereavement issue like this. Because I don't know, it's very strange. These are all good. Time is always digestible. But I didn't expect that my mother's persistent paranoia for so long made Dad unable to see the way out to solve family problems. I feel that my mother is not really being a family with him and actively solving family problems together. At that moment, a couple were strangers. He is in pain, because of pain, he doubts whether there is love. But I think that when he raises a question, he really doesn’t necessarily have to deny anything... but he can’t bear to tell... He wants to get his mother’s understanding and make this family bigger and stronger together... But his mother turned away in silence. I'm home...so my mother is really an escape personality...

The family is trying to get better, but my mother is still stuck in place... I think my mother is trying to get close to her son, such as seeing him lying outside and asking him to add clothes. The mother just couldn't deal with it too much. The eldest son had an accident and the second son couldn't think of committing suicide. How much she wished she could wipe off the blood stains and close the cracked bowl... If her hardness hurts her father and second son, it actually hurts herself. So I really want to know how my mother's mental disorder can be cured! But the movie cunningly said: not all questions have answers...

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  • Yasmin 2022-03-26 09:01:07

    An interior emotional piece in warm tones. As the plot goes on, the whole cause and effect gradually surfaced, and the rhythm is good. A lot of flashbacks are used to express memories. Too much dialogue but good effect. The subtle psychological activities of the characters are shown in depth, and the relationship and mood between people, especially relatives and relatives, are also well expressed, reflecting the communication difficulties between the two generations, although there is still love between them. Reminds me of Turgenev's father and son

  • Eryn 2022-04-22 07:01:32

    In all fairness, if you condemn this mother, if it is your father who is overly rational, is it easier for you to forgive? The reason why this kind of film bothers it is that it deliberately or unintentionally discloses its appeal to the right woman. Indifference can be a sign of injury, I have to understand my son, no one can say anything to this mother?

Ordinary People quotes

  • Calvin "Cal" Jarrett: He just wants to know that you don't hate him.

    Beth Jarrett: Hate him! How could I hate him? Mothers don't hate their sons! Is that what he told you? You see how you believe everything he tells you? And you can't do the same for me, you can't! GOD I DON'T KNOW WHAT ANYONE WANTS FROM ME ANYMORE!

    Ward: Beth, we don't want anything from you; Audrey, Cal, Connie and Me, we just want you to be happy.

    Beth Jarrett: Happy! Ward, you tell me the definition of happy. But first you better make sure your kids are good and safe, that they haven't fallen of a horse, been hit by a car, or drown in that swimming pool you're so proud of!

    Audrey: Oh Beth!

    Beth Jarrett: Then, you come and tell me how to be happy!

  • Conrad "Con" Jarrett: When I let myself feel, all I feel is lousy.

    Dr. Berger: Oh well excuse me, I never promised you a rose garden.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh fuck you Berger.

    Dr. Berger: What?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: FUCK YOU!

    Dr. Berger: Hey, that's it!

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Geez! You're really weird huh, what do you feel huh? Do you jerk off, or jack off, or whatever you call it?

    Dr. Berger: What do you think?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: What do I think? I think you're married to a fat lady and you go home and you fuck the living daylights out of her!

    Dr. Berger: Sounds good to me.