I want to see how my mother is cured

Jaylon 2021-12-21 08:01:21

The clips of my mother running away from home are really too real and painful.. I often hear this sentence: People can change. Dad said that her mother was not strong enough, and her apparent response was to maintain order. After the accident, her life like this made my father feel that he didn't know her.. So he asked painfully if I still love you? I don't know what will happen if I don't love me? Mother did not speak, turned and left to pack her luggage.

First of all, I don't think my mother has changed or she doesn't love her anymore. Mom replied that she loves Dad as always. I believe her. It can only be said that the father did not know that his mother would treat the child bereavement issue like this. Because I don't know, it's very strange. These are all good. Time is always digestible. But I didn't expect that my mother's persistent paranoia for so long made Dad unable to see the way out to solve family problems. I feel that my mother is not really being a family with him and actively solving family problems together. At that moment, a couple were strangers. He is in pain, because of pain, he doubts whether there is love. But I think that when he raises a question, he really doesn’t necessarily have to deny anything... but he can’t bear to tell... He wants to get his mother’s understanding and make this family bigger and stronger together... But his mother turned away in silence. I'm home...so my mother is really an escape personality...

The family is trying to get better, but my mother is still stuck in place... I think my mother is trying to get close to her son, such as seeing him lying outside and asking him to add clothes. The mother just couldn't deal with it too much. The eldest son had an accident and the second son couldn't think of committing suicide. How much she wished she could wipe off the blood stains and close the cracked bowl... If her hardness hurts her father and second son, it actually hurts herself. So I really want to know how my mother's mental disorder can be cured! But the movie cunningly said: not all questions have answers...

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  • Raphaelle 2022-03-26 09:01:07

    Redford dissèque avec acuité les dessous d'une famille à l'apparence paisible et ordinaire ensevelie dans des non dits pour soulever un sujet universel. sans pour autant tomber dans le pathos ni le mélo

  • Zola 2022-03-28 09:01:04

    In the end, the mother's departure is a very ordinary but perfect ending. Although the script is full of the old-fashioned atmosphere of the last century, it does not hinder the universality at all... People with such a character encounter such a thing, such a tepid and unclear atmosphere, happens every day.

Ordinary People quotes

  • Jeannine: Hey, you stand behind me in the choir, you sing well, you have a lot of energy.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh you do, I mean, I do?

    Jeannine: I mean that's a good thing. I'm Jeannine Pratt.

    Gail: And you're Conrad Jarrett, remember?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Yeah, right!

    Jeannine: Well I'll see you around.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Bye.

    Lazenby: [mocking Jeannine] You have a lot of energy!

  • Jeannine: Conrad, I'm not a very good bowler, what I mean is, I'm a funny bowler.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh, well we don't have to go bowling if you'd rather not. How funny are ya?

    Jeannine: On a scale of one to ten... about a ten.

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: Oh... yeah, that's pretty funny.