The male nurse helped the stinky boy get love

Nico 2022-02-15 08:01:37

The foundation of life is accumulated by personal experience.

A writer must not only have keen insight, the thought of seeing Ling from a high house, but also a wealth of experience. Especially to appreciate others, so as to observe oneself. Paleness and abundance depend entirely on one's own choice. Of course, if you don't feel other people, you will experience happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy, but the point of entry is different. However, by carefully observing others, you may be better able to interpret your own energy. Even if you don't say anything, you can learn peace and humility, reflection and enlightenment. This is the great wisdom of life learning, that is, selflessness.

American independent film "The Care Worker's Story" (2016), Litzville, Washington, 45-year-old Benjamin (Paul Rudd), wrote a few novels that few people know about. Three years ago, because of self-negligence, The youngest son died in an accident, and since then he has been languishing. After losing his job, he has been separated from his wife for two years, and the so-called business family has all fallen apart. In embarrassment, he participated in a six-week training as a nurse, ready to reinvigorate.

The trainer tells the trainees: "Ask, listen, observe, help, and ask again". This is the device for nurses to help memorize. Caring, not worrying, is the basic principle of caregivers. Only by taking care of yourself can you take care of others, and vice versa. A person who can't even take care of himself can't take care of others well. There is an equal relationship between the carer and the person being cared for. This pile of correct nonsense made Ben dare not slack off.

He came to Elsa's house, which was a raging woman. Her 18-year-old son Trevor (Craig Roberts) suffers from Duchenne's dystrophy, which is called muscular dystrophy in the Chinese. It is said that he can only live another 7 or 8 years.

But this Trevor is an unconscious weird guy. Although he was in a wheelchair, he ran the train with his mouth full of dirty words. When I saw Ben, I asked a number between 1 and 3000. I chose a number. Ben said 3, but he was wrong. It's not just nonsense. The second question is, are you ready to wipe my ass? What do you do? The embarrassed Ben said, I will wipe it clean for you. Well, then you are very satisfied with the carer who is paid 9 dollars an hour to wipe his butt? Ben had to shrug helplessly.

Of course, there is also this weird mother who is not worried. She said that for this child, I moved from London to this place (the environment in Litzville is good, natural oxygen bar). I work in a bank, as a department manager, and must be 8 in the morning. , 45 to the post, you must be here before this time, he only eats waffles, every Thursday afternoon to go to the park, thunderous.

In addition, every day he needs to stretch his hind leg muscles, Achilles tendon, ligament, hip flexor, and a ventilator to help him breathe. The prescription drugs include Difcote, Netsartan, Pridone, etc., as well as nutrition. Wait, please don’t make him cry. In this way, the book, who was dizzy, had to accept it according to the regulations and prepare to go to work.

The next day, as soon as Ben came here, Trevor said, you call the Wish Foundation and ask them to ask Katie to come over and help me play. Can. Ben picked up the phone, and naturally there was no follow-up. Combining theory with practice is troublesome. Holding this bird child to pee and shit and wipe his ass, the so-called eating, drinking and Lhasa are all in charge.

Bothersome. Ben is handy. One of his tricks to deal with this bad boy was to deal with it coldly. He was arrogant, Ben read the newspaper, he cried out, Ben turned a blind eye, but he did not lose sight of what he was supposed to do. Not to mention, this deaf ears made him really wilted, at least better than those aunts who took care of him.

I also wanted to take him out on a trip, to see the world's largest cow in Rufus, Idaho, and then to Utah, to see the world's largest pit. But Trevor’s mother Elsa disagrees, saying that I know your past history well (you checked me out), and let a stranger come to my house. You go crazy, let me lose him again.

I said that they are two different things. He had better get out of the room, which would be of great benefit to him. Besides, in just a few days, you are going to Atlanta for a business trip. After hesitating, Elsa agreed to Ben's suggestion. Bringing necessities, medical ventilators, etc., is more difficult than going out for a baby.

In fact, because of Trevor’s physical and mental health, and because of his debt collection, he was also in trouble. His wife forced him to divorce. He always dodges that he forgot to bring the agreement, not to sign it, and he could not be divorced. Ben asked Trevor what he most wanted to do if he recovered. He said he wanted to stand up and pee. I said I will help you realize it.

Beautiful scenery along the way, accompanied by beautiful women. First, the little chubby girl, Dot, smokes, full of swearing, and looks like a girl who has stumbled. This girl goes well with Trevor. She said to Trevor, those sneakers are cool, he said the store. Afterwards, Ben taught him to say more, bought it in the store. Ha ha.

Thinking of goodbye from now on, I didn't expect to see her again in the small town bar the next day, beckoning outside, it seemed that she was going to take a ride to continue eastward. Seeing Trevor staring at her, he encouraged him to go out and ask her to come and sit down. He did go out, but turned around a few times and turned back.

Ben had to go out in person, but the girl said at a glance, "You are not a pervert, right? There are so many perverts on this highway." I said I just wanted to invite you in and sit down and take you to Salt Lake City. Seeing Dort again, Trevor felt shy. Get in the car together, Trevor happily.

On the way, I met a woman with a belly, at a loss by the smoking car. Ben stopped, took a look, and said the car was useless. She said that her name was Pitches and she was going to visit her mother in Nebraska. She was about to give birth and had all the names of her children. With her father, Elton, she said he was a hero in Afghanistan. Many people were saved in the battle. Take her on the road together and come to a small town happily.

After staying in the hotel, Ben encouraged Trevor to date Dort out for a big dinner, saying that he was not hungry. The strangest thing is that in the past, Trevor made fun of Ben, pretending to choke after eating a cow, or had an abnormal physiological reaction, and he was so scared to death. This time it was Ben’s turn to tease him, saying that the medicine and the ventilator had been forgotten at the previous hotel. Trevor opened his mouth wide, his body convulsed, his eyes rolled, and he almost collapsed. Of course, before he collapsed, Save him and return and let him go to the appointment as he wishes.

Ben opened the curtains and saw Trevor and the pretty girl smiling across the road. At this time Pitches came in, smiled and touched the baby in his belly, saying that you touched it, the baby was moving, which was very embarrassing. Innocent, she was full of tears of excitement, full of boundless expectations.

When the two came back from a date, Ben, who had been hungry, looked content with him and asked him how he felt. not bad. Trevor said that when I arrive in Salt Lake City tomorrow, I want to see my father, where he drove a car city. Really, you didn't mean that when you were 3 years old, he didn't want you anymore, you still have to visit him. Trevor said that you kept asking me to forgive him. That's true. Don't tell my mother.

I drove to Salt Lake City the next day and saw this dad who had abandoned him when he was 3 years old. He was quite stiff and unfamiliar. He said, oh, why are you here. Ben said, didn't you write to him. No, it was written to him by his mother in my name. No wonder Trevor has never read it, and throws the letter in the wastebasket as soon as it arrives. Now that you are here, I have money, so let's use it. Seeing Trevor's extremely disappointed expression, Ben hurriedly pushed him out, the fat girl Dot turned her head and raised a contemptuous middle finger to the cruel and unfeeling father. The sad Trevor said he wanted to go home, but he didn't want to go anywhere.

I said that you are a coward, and you are almost in a deep pit, but you don't want to go. With the encouragement of Dort and Pitches, Trevor finally agreed to go to the deep pit together. When they got there, they were so excited. Ben found a car that had been following. He stepped forward and interrogated, thinking it was sent by his wife for divorce or Trevor’s mother, but Dort’s father, Bob, said that he had an awkward relationship with his daughter and that the child had to go to Denver. I see. What happened to the child. Muscular dystrophy. Is this sick? Not much, one in 3,500.

At this time, the phone rang, and Ben once answered Duote's yelling, saying no, come on. Thinking that Trevor was ill, he immediately ran down into the pit. At first glance, it was Pitches that might be over-excited and was about to give birth. When he was at a loss, Ben had to go up and help her.

The film flashed three years ago, Ben's carelessness in Jingzhou, improper parking, causing the car to suddenly slide down, knocking down his lovely son, while shouting to cheer until Elton of Pitches fell to the ground. Seeing the little baby, everyone shed tears. This blue deep pit is full of affection. The miracle continues.

Dort hugged his father and promised to go to Denver with him. Trevor was sad, and the two hugged tightly. She got in the car and still waved goodbye. Trevor reaped a love delicacy that she had never experienced before. Ben didn't stop doing two things, borrowing tools from the firefighters, holding Trevor on the top of the pit, and letting him sprinkle the greatest pee in history. Success! Success! What a great feat! Hahaha, return with joy.

The positioning of several roles in the film is clear and clear, with constant jokes, which makes it possible to refresh the heart and soul, otherwise it will easily flow into rigid rigidity. The episode of Leonard Cohen in the film is very relieved, and its deep, profound and surrounding resonance seems to take away their redundancy.

The endless emptiness in the west, the blue sky during the day, and the passing breeze are the best comfort for healing. The paralyzed body and mind, and the paralyzed emotions, once in such a refreshing environment, they will disappear without a trace. After that, Ben, who was a foreign voice, quit his nursing job and concentrated on writing. He said that Trevor had a new caregiver Anna. Time flies, Anna resigns and Trevor disappeared.

Everything in the world has an end, and only the best sincerity in human nature will not disappear. This is the origin of humanity's endless life, and it is also the pre-action force for individuals to live. Ben has benefited a lot from nursing Trevor. This is not only the cultivation of simple patience, but also the understanding of heart-to-heart. The gods are always on the road, and they will not be lonely if they are accompanied by affection.

The road films of American independent films are probably the most filmed among all countries. Even Bruno Dumont went to California to film "29 Palm Trees", not to mention the American director. Even though the United States is a vast country with sparsely populated land and inexhaustible resources for filming, the most important thing is probably because of the open-minded and joyous nature of Americans. "One Night", "Paper Moon", "Easy Rider", "Bonnie and Clyde", "Taxi Driver", "The End of the Road", "The Devil's Head", etc., all have become a memorable road movie classic .

The characteristic folklore along the way, treacherous canyons, deserted hills, small towns, fossil forests, boundless pastures, and sky-filled imaginations all constitute the unique and inherent style of the United States, coupled with a ridiculous plot, a humorous road movie, which is so cool and crooked. Appearing crookedly in the world is a great blessing to movie fans all over the world.

I remembered that in May of this year, a family of friends who love to travel started a high and far self-driving tour, starting from California in the western United States and going through Arizona, Nevada, Utah, Idaho, Wyoming and other states to enjoy the Grand Canyon. , Horseshoe Bend, Antelope Canyon, Zion National Park, Bliss Park, Salt Lake City, Arches National Park, Yellowstone National Park, Grand Teton National Park, Yosemite, until the famous Highway One and other places, through hundreds of The town, which lasted more than a month, through their strange and spectacular scenery, I felt the joy of their travel. In the afterglow of the setting sun, the leisurely cattle, the friendly town, the guest house and rest, the scenery along the way is fascinating.

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Extended Reading
  • Aliza 2022-03-21 09:02:29

    The voice of typing, soft and gentle: "He is lying on the ground at the age of 21, looking so peaceful." Wow ha ha ha!

  • Ellen 2022-03-25 09:01:13

    Can't believe I actually enjoyed this bowl of chicken soup PS: It's a pity not to be on the big screen

The Fundamentals of Caring quotes

  • Peaches: What's it like being a parent?

    Ben: Every corny thing you've heard about having a kid is completely and utterly true... It's the only reason we're here.

  • Dot: I have exactly one life, and for reasons I myself don't really understand, I now believe that life somehow will not be fulfilled unless I'm standing at the bottom of the worlds deepest pit with you two perverts!