At the age of 20, like everyone, I was moved by the sentence I raised you. From then on as his own love bible. I think that one day I can say this to my loved one.
At the age of 30, as a small person, he has experienced the cruelty of society and the test of human nature. Enough of the half-smile and intrigue, exhausted both physically and mentally. Watching this movie again, what I like more and more is the one who shouted and worked hard. The one who was laughed at and fooled by others, but still held an actor's self-cultivation seriously and without doubt. The one who still believes that after dark, the sun will soon dawn.
Stephen Chow once said that this movie is just a summary of his acting career, not a comedy, and it has nothing to do with love. The reason why there is a love scene is just to add some elements that cater to the needs of this movie. He just wanted to say that in the real world, many, many little people's standards for love.
You are right, I support your love, just want to possess each other. This is not the best love. Especially to reproduce the times we live in today, this kind of simple beauty should only appear in the hearts of boys and girls who are not in the world. With the accumulation of our experience and the awakening of our cognition, the best love has changed from living together to growing together. Our brains are more developed and our thinking is more rational. We are shifting more and more from caring about our material life to caring about the abundance of our souls.
I support you, just to express my determination and firmness. This is no longer in line with the complexities of us who can support ourselves now. The concept of love will go with the flow with the changes of the times. No one will be moved by the sentence I support you, unless she is so incompetent that she cannot support herself. I support you, and I can no longer bring a sense of security to women.
Our definition of good love has changed from whether he is willing to support me to whether he can nourish me. We are shifting more and more from what we can give each other to what the other can give us.
The love that grows with each other is indeed the best love right now. I agree with that.
In the past few years, I haven't thought about what good love is, maybe it's because I'm too tired to live. I have never had the heart to torture myself about what my understanding of the love between men and women is. Just live to live. Now that I'm in my 30s, I just started to learn about love. The ❤️ that I just started to understand should not be possession, but mutual support and mutual promotion (forgive the lack of vocabulary, I can only think of these words). Life in this era is too difficult, love is too heavy, single firmness is just a futile stand still, and it will only be overwhelmed by it. If you want to carry love on the road of life, only by encouraging each other and bearing each other's weight can you make each other and yourself stronger and stronger.
But I still love this movie, maybe because the little people are moved by the firmness of their dreams and their optimism about life, maybe because I know that the outdated but incomparably simple concept of love will never appear in my mind again, maybe I just simply miss that simple white-clothed fluttering self.
Who knows, who cares, anyway, after dark, it will light up soon.
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