If we always play by the rules, we will never enjoy life.
Most men should take the core idea of this film's publicity seriously. After all, the derailment described as a beast in married life is so beautiful, no doubt, it gives the men the spring heart that is just about to move, and brings a touch. spring breeze.
Infidelity is indeed the biggest test in the relationship between husband and wife. After marriage, the enthusiasm for love will eventually be cooled by time and become a long-lasting trickle of water. Even a breeze will cause ripples. It is undeniable that the throbbing of love will make a man or a woman energize, to please himself, and to move for himself, especially in the middle-aged life with stable work and steady life, people's hearts are always eager for something novel. What I experienced, just like Rudford in the film, stubbornly believes that infidelity and cheating can not only increase the interest in marriage, but also create a sense of crisis for the wife, making the relationship between the two full of interest due to the sense of crisis. And his wife's tolerance just made him more fearless. If it weren't for the car accident, Ludford's romance and dashing would have been brought into the coffin together.
Rudford's son-in-law, Audrey, was an honest man, obedient to his wife, without the slightest passion in life, and even in the process of intimacy, as dull as a task. However, what should come will always come, even if there is no father-in-law's fallacy, I am afraid that I will be unable to resist Feilai Yanfu, not to mention that it is the best like Sarota. Audrey's cheating was different from Rudford's romance. Rudford was just playing around, and he liked the excitement of cheating, but Audrey fell deeper and deeper and fell in love with that person.
In the successful study of chicken soup, there is always an argument that encourages us to break through our comfort zone and have the courage to change, which is also cowardice and laziness in human nature. At the same time, there is a kind of unwillingness to be lonely and indifferent in human nature, and the ego must break through this comfort and demand greater stimulation to satisfy inner desires and emptiness.
There are many works about cheating, but my favorite is this one and the Korean "Men and Women". The emotional change in "Men and Women" is a little breakthrough in repression and forbearance, from the touch of the skin, to the thoughts of the heart, and finally the relationship, which is out of control, so the woman chooses to be brave, the man chooses to escape, and the two are in emotional changes. Completed a reincarnation, and finally returned to the origin.
"Hopeful Man" tells people through a performance similar to a farce that the family will eventually return to perfection, the mistress will not bear the infamy, the lover can go away safely, and life will continue happily. Infidelity can be as high-profile as Rudford and Audrey, or as subtle as Alice and Mother, but it leaves no one out. Rudford loves his wife deeply, but he can't refuse his lover. This has been the case from the beginning of the film. Although the death of his wife has brought him a great blow, the things in his temperament have long been ingrained, and he no longer continues to be romantic, not because of changes. , but without that mood, everything in our nature is the same, and it has never changed. As he said to his grandson at the end, if we always follow the rules, then we will never enjoy the joy of life.
Derailment may bring temporary satisfaction, may bring long-term destruction, and may not change anything. Perhaps, in the betrayal of love and marriage, we should all hold down our green hats and listen to what our rivals have to say. Why is your self-righteousness covered with nine hundred and ninety-nine roses, but not as good as a bunch of tulips in the hands of the people?
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