#2018.4.8
On the night of 4.7, I broke up with my boyfriend. There are various superficial and deep-seated reasons, and he has always wanted me to give an explanation. I worked hard. Last week, I brewed a breakup letter for myself for this day, and sorted out the feelings of the past six months. I tried my best to be objective, but it was bound to fail. Especially when he kept me yesterday, I really didn't know how to refine what I was thinking.
Was it a mistake to be with him? Was it a mistake to break up with him?
After eating chicken with my friend for two hours, I still can't calm down. Don't want to sleep late at night. The thought of him will be sad, he will return to the life of smoking, drinking and not exercising, the thought that I will become a single dog, the thought that there will be no fixed person in the future, good morning, good afternoon, good night (the power of habit is terrible ), I'm very distressed. A friend recommended this show to me before, and I simply spent time for the purpose of listening.
Looking at it, I was suddenly relieved and relieved.
E04 Ted is about his breakup with his girlfriend. Barney said, "Breaking up is always hurting, but the difference is that it hurts less." When my friend was eating chicken, he told me that most breakups are ugly, and very few people break up peacefully. It turns out that there are people who are as obsessed with hurting each other as I am. There are people who think as I do, be honest and sincere, tell him what you think, and face the breakup with courage and integrity. what...
E06 Robin has a boyfriend for two weeks. But she and he both found out that Robin "he want WE, but I want I." in the relationship and broke up. This piece of analysis on the rooftop moved to tears. Me and him, Robin and her boyfriend, we still want to remain independent in this relationship, and we don't want to do all those stupid things that two people do together, maybe because we haven't met our own Hansen. All the reasons I gave him, all the reasons my friends gave me in my advice, all the reasons she thought we were unworthy, were all false. It's actually very simple, it's just [not the right person]. I did nothing wrong, and neither did he. For a time, relieved.
Then Robin and Ted sat together holding the blanket, like a long, long time best friend. I'm envious, I want to have a boyfriend like this too.
#2018.4.20
Recently, I like the state of being single more and more. Probably because I found that I have improved in all aspects after returning to being single, and I have met many peers who are very bright and outstanding despite the title of single dog, and I found that "powerful single" is a cool state. So I feel more and more that love is something that smells sour and unsuitable for me. 233333 I just saw a story of married life on Zhihu. Chai, rice, oil and salt, trivial three aunts and six wives, my first reaction was "what??? Don't be like this, I will continue to be myself after marriage, it's cool and cool, I don't have a mother-in-law, I'm not pregnant, I'm not pregnant, I have no children after giving birth. What is love???"
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