When I was looking for a young lady, I met my father-in-law. This old foreign movie is about marriage and cheating

Orion 2022-09-05 03:12:31

Love is beautiful, and people are eager to retain this beauty, so they want to strengthen this relationship through marriage.

But many people think that marriage is the grave of love after marriage.

As a result, cheating has become a potential danger to married life.

After "Stolen Kiss", François Truffaut released the fourth "Marriage Life" in the "Antoine series" in 1970, also known as "The Bed".

The film tells the story of the life and crisis of 25-year-old Antoine and Christine after their marriage.

After marriage, Christine is extremely happy, and she can be seen with a happy smile no matter where she is.

When she was shopping at the vegetable market, when others called her "Miss", she would happily correct that she was already "Mrs."

At this time, Christine already had the charm of a young woman in terms of dress and behavior, and this style was always attracting other men.

When Christine went upstairs, an old police officer in the community would always go upstairs slowly and let her go first, and then the old police officer would look around from the angle of a gopher.

Christine's job is to be a violin trainer at home, and every day parents bring their children over to learn the violin.

Antoine runs a flower shop downstairs, and every day he tries various methods to make the flowers change color.

He has a few neighbors, and something short of a parent happens every day.

There is a man who rarely goes out, always likes to open the window to chat and read the newspaper;

There is an old woman who runs a convenience store and always wants to do something with Antoine;

There was an opera singer who would wait anxiously at the door every day for his wife, and then when he was impatient, he threw his wife's coat and bag on the stairs and went downstairs.

Antoine and Christine would come to their mother-in-law's house for dinner from time to time.

The old man and his mother-in-law have always been very good to Antoine, and Antoine at this time has some opinions, and he can also express his thoughts on some issues.

While going into the wine library to get wine, Christine called Antoine.

It used to be Antoine who couldn't wait to kiss Christine in the wine cellar, but now it's Christine who couldn't help kissing Antoine.

The transformation of life seems to be such that men become more rational after marriage and women become more emotional after marriage.

In married life, borrowing money from friends seems to be a topic that is never late.

Whenever Antoine met a long-haired friend, he would always ask him to lend him money. The first time he borrowed 30, Antoine lent him readily; the second time he met, his long-haired friend lent him another 20 on the grounds of rounding up.

Antoine was embarrassed to ask for money, but he didn't want to be taken advantage of all the time. When seeing Brother Long Hair again, Antoine pulled his wife to hide, but was stopped by the other party. This time, Brother Long Hair wanted to round up to 100, and Antoine had to lend him another 50.

And Kristin also had trouble with money.

Often parents forget to pay her, but she is embarrassed to ask for it. Later, Christine and Antoine discussed that when the parents came downstairs, if Christine played a certain tune, it meant that the parents did not give money. Antoine would stop the parents chatting downstairs and take the opportunity to get the money back.

Of course, the troubles of married life are far more than these, and some trivial matters will also become the fuse of quarrel.

Because of the installation of the telephone, Christine asked Antoine to write a letter to the MP, but Antoine's wording in the letter was not friendly, which made Christine chatter and the two had a big fight.

After getting married, the husband and wife seem to become more and more impatient. A trivial matter will bring them to the line; but it also seems to become more and more patient, and they may be forgiven when they encounter a big thing. .

Noisy over trivial matters is to question marriage, while forgiveness of major matters is to tolerate marriage.

Questioning and tolerance have always been the theme of marriage.

After an experiment failed, Antoine decided to look for work.

There was another person who applied for the job at the same time as him, and the hostile gaze of the other party made Antoine very uncomfortable.

The other party has a letter of introduction from the boss's friend, and he asked the boss's assistant to pass the letter of introduction to the boss; but when the secretary came out to call for someone, that person happened to go to the toilet, and Antoine was mistaken by the boss for being introduced by a friend. hire.

Kristin is pregnant and the whole family is very happy.

But when Christine gave birth to his son, Antoine did not immediately quit his job and come back to accompany Christine.

When he came to see Christine in the hospital, his mother-in-law saw that he didn't even bring a bouquet of flowers.

These details can be seen, Antoine's feelings for Christine have been very weak.

Disappointed and angry, Christine told Antoine to leave.

When discussing the child's name, Antoine went with the name Alfonso despite Christine's objections.

In the later stages of marriage, children become the most important bond between husband and wife.

Although Christine and Antoine have different topics of interest, they both read their own magazines when they go to bed.

But in order to raise the child together and create a better environment for him, the two worked hard together.

Antoine's company came to a Japanese client Brigitte, her oriental charm deeply attracted Antoine.

Once Brigitte accidentally dropped the bracelet in the pool, Antoine took the initiative to fish it out and gave it back to Brigitte.

When they went out, the two attracted to each other kissed each other.

"If I commit suicide with someone else, I'll choose you"

Brigitte's confession has to be said to be somewhat Japanese horror.

The long married life has made Antoine numb to Christine, Antoine wants to seek freshness, so the appearance of Brigitte and the initiative to make Antoine's derailment a reality.

The young Antoine learned English because he liked the owner of the shoe store, and now Antoine learned Japanese because he liked Brigitte.

Brigitte wrote her love for Antoine on a small note and stuffed it into a bouquet of roses. Antoine didn't dare to take it home, so he threw the flowers in the trash can at the door. But the neighbor's child turned over the flowers and brought them into Antoine's house, and Christine put the flowers in a vase.

One day, while Christine was looking after the children, the roses in the vase opened and the note inside was exposed.

Christine learned of Antoine's infidelity and deliberately put on Japanese makeup when he got home.

Antoine made no mistake and refused to admit it, and Christine kicked him out of the bedroom.

After that, the two had a big fight and began to separate.

After the separation, Antoine began to live with Brigitte. When chatting with colleagues, his topic was Brigitte.

And Christine is always expecting Antoine to come back, but every time it is someone else who knocks on the door.

While chatting with neighbors, she still misses the days when she was in love with Antoine.

Brigitte's Japanese life made Antoine very uncomfortable, and he gradually felt pain.

When he came home to see his son once, Christine did not quarrel with Antoine, and even took the initiative to prepare summer clothes for him.

Christine's good mood made Antoine a little uncomfortable. He learned that Christine had recently met an idol and got an autograph.

Antoine wanted to reconcile with Christine, but he still couldn't say it. Watching Christine happily leave in the car, he felt extremely empty inside.

Antoine went to the small house again for comfort, and the old sister found a group of young ladies for him to choose.

When Antoine, who was satisfied in the future, went downstairs, he met his old husband who was also looking for the young lady.

He wanted to hide, but the old man said to him flatly, "Nice to see you"

Antoine starts to get bored with Brigitte, so everything Brigitte does is wrong.

At dinner with Brigitte, he could hardly bear to sit with her.

Antoine felt the torment of time, and he called Christine again and again to talk to him.

Fortunately, Christine will persuade every time.

Brigitte also understood Antoine's thoughts and left voluntarily.

Christine's tolerance brought Antoine back to the family.

Antoine's state began to become a neighbor opera. Every time he went out, Christine's procrastination made Antoine pace back and forth in front of the house for a long time. When it was unbearable, he threw his wife's coat and bag up and down the stairs. off the floor. Then Christine would rush downstairs to put on her coat, grab her husband and go out together.

The opera couple saw this scene and laughed happily.

The opera's wife thinks this is love, but the opera has turned silver.

The movie also ends here.

In this "Marriage Life", many people's situations after marriage are played out. I believe that when you watch this film, you will see your own shadow.

Marriage is a process of integration, and it needs to be tolerant enough to sustain it.

Confusion will be a person's eternal theme.

No matter what stage, most people have their own goals, but when you think about it, you can't seem to figure out what you really want.

Many people may not understand why they live.

Constantly pursuing the meaning of life, maybe this is the true meaning of life

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Bed & Board quotes

  • Christine Doinel: I don't like this business of writing about your childhood, dragging your parents through the mud. I don't know much, but one thing I do know - if you use art to settle accounts, it's no longer art.

  • Christine Doinel: Oh, my poor breasts. If I have a child, I won't breast-feed him.

    Antoine Doinel: Well, don't look at me. He'll have to fend for himself.