I cried after watching "MY LIFE WITHOUT ME"

Dillan 2022-01-27 08:23:03

I haven't seen a movie that makes me cry so much in a long time. Such a plain independent film has moved me for a long time. I can't feel a trace of contrived, only the last cherish and reluctance of life. Of course, it is more of the free and easy daring to face, but in fact, what makes ANN unique is her That irreplaceable kindness.
Kind-hearted people and the stories of those who have the courage to give without asking for anything in return but for the happiness of others seem to always get my favor and respect. This is the case with AMILIE, and so is ANN. It seems that they are willing to give everything in exchange for the happiness of the people they like, of course. , in movies, especially in such idealistic ones, the heroine is usually happy too, even if she dies early like ANN, but I can say she didn't waste her last days, and made them special Meaningful and special.
Not sure what list I would make if I were in a situation like this...
maybe
1. Fall in love with someone with all your heart
2. Tell each of my friends my feelings for them and tell them my advice
3. Do my best to arrange my parents' lives and give them hugs every day
4. Skydive once
5. Smile to everyone every day
6. Complete the documentation and formalities for donating all my organs7
. Go to Tibet and travel as much as you can
8. Write down all my thoughts and feelings, just like Lu Youqing...
Maybe I'm still young now, I don't have a lover or a child, and it seems that many of them are for my own feelings, but when I think about such problems, I seem to find that in fact everyone You can die at any time, so why are these things only thought to do in the last moments of your life? In fact, it can be done every day. There are many things in life that should be cherished every day, your breath, the heat of the air, the green grass, the sky, the laughter of friends, the smile of strangers, the care of parents... If you lose your life As a premise, everything is worth cherishing. Cherish is the word that comes to my mind the most after watching this movie.
Then there is kindness.
In fact, the heroine is very happy, although she is about to lose her life, she is in trouble and has lovely children, a poor but gentle husband, a wordy but sincere mother, and even the father in prison is worth cherishing. From another angle, she will be unhappy. She had a child with the only husband who had kissed at the age of 17. She has never experienced any other love, and has been living in poverty. She has not seen her father since the age of six. , My mother hates everyone, my humble friends at work just keep counting calories... But ANN never complained, she loves her husband, misses her father, understands her mother, and invites friends to eat at home to solve the pain of dieting, she is kind She loves everything, life doesn't seem to give her anything, but it gives her the most beautiful thing - that precious kindness and sincerity.
Among them is the love that ANN expects outside of her husband. Friends call it an extramarital affair. Indeed, yes, but I dislike the tone of my friend's words. Such a dying person yearns for a time other than the only love in his life. Isn't it too mean for love to put on that dirty hat? I like the love inside, ANN and her husband: In order to wipe away ANN's tears, the undershirt that her husband took off captured the girl's heart. It is simple, but it is very moving. That kindness and love are everything.
ANN and lover: The first meeting in a coffee shop, LEE fell in love with ANN at first sight, this woman who writes quietly in the middle of the night is so moving, so unique, it should be the calm and bright quality of ANN that attracted LEE; the second time At the laundry shop, LEE was delighted to see the woman he liked reappear, and awkwardly accosted him, ANN still smiled calmly. (If it wasn't for the plan in her heart, she would have politely rejected him) When LEE returned from buying coffee, ANN was exhausted and fell asleep on the sofa. LEE just looked at her quietly, covered her with clothes, looked at her little by little, his lover, helped her to do the laundry and folded her clothes, and cleverly left a book and contact information in the laundry bag , hoping that the woman he likes will come to him. When he left, his eyes were staring at him tightly, and the reluctance and anxiety made people understand that the love came so suddenly, so really so heavy; ANN found LEE on a rainy night, LEE's house was empty, and he was embarrassed. Embarrassed, ANN smiled empathetically and asked questions. The two of them turned their eyes to each other and their hearts were clear. In LEE's car, accompanied by the music and the rain, ANN said when his breath froze: "If you don't kiss me, I will be sharp. Yell!" LEE was still hesitating, and ANN really screamed. "SHUT UP!" LEE kissed, so serious, so focused, so happy kiss... The love between the two is like all couples, so lingering, and their separation is inevitable. Although ANN just wanted to experience a man other than her husband, it seemed that she was really moved by this sincere prospector. Yes, but what can she do? Only at the last moment of separation, go back and kiss for the last time, hug for the last time, and leave the beloved lover with a choked sobs...
Recorded the birthday message to the child, recorded the words to the husband, the mother, had a manicure, watched the After getting a father, introducing a future bride for her husband, and leaving the last love in her life, ANN has completed almost everything she planned to do. She is very tired and looks at her husband and children through the curtain. She hopes to be another ANN who can take care of her husband and children in the future. Her eyes are full of serenity and happiness, but of course there are also sorrows and nostalgia. In short, her heart was calm and peaceful at that moment.
At this point, I almost burst into tears.

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Extended Reading
  • Darius 2022-03-21 09:03:17

    Is there anything crueler than knowing your own date of death before you die? The scene where Annie keeps recording her last words to the child in the car is the best scene in the movie.

  • Dana 2022-03-25 09:01:22

    It was a female director. . . No wonder the portrayal of women's inner drama is so delicate and terrifying. . . .

My Life Without Me quotes

  • Ann: Nobody thinks about death in the supermarket.

  • [Ann writes in journal]

    Ann: THINGS TO DO BEFORE I DIE.

    Ann: 1. Tell my daughters I love them several times.

    Ann: 2. Find Don a new wife who the girls like.

    Ann: 3. Record birthday messages for the girls for every year until they're 18.

    Ann: 4. Go to Whalebay Beach together and have a big picnic.

    Ann: 5. Smoke and drink as much as I want.

    Ann: 6. Say what I'm thinking.

    Ann: 7. Make love with other men to see what it's like.

    Ann: 8. Make someone fall in love with me.

    Ann: 9. Go and see Dad in Jail.

    Ann: 10. Get false nails. And do something with my hair.