So, too sensible or very picky. They have all become my problems.
Sometimes I just want to spend a little more time to understand a person and imagine a relationship. What's wrong with it? What we are looking for, after all, is not just a sloppy enthusiasm, but also a relationship that can make you fall into it.
Dropped in. Yes, this is my definition of feeling. Did not guard the body like jade, and did not seek to retreat from the whole body. Lost gravity, abandoned the direction, and plunged in.
Harry could have fallen in love with Sally in the first place. She was beautiful enough at that time. When she tilted her head to calculate the bill she should pay, he said to her: I think you are very charming.
I think she is very charming at such a simple moment. This is at least emotional, isn't it?
But it took him twelve years to fall in love with her. Just like at the end of the film, they are sitting in front of the camera like those old couples. He said: We got married in three months. She corrected: it was twelve years and three months.
I think this is probably the situation set for them by this love. Twelve years, plus three months.
Someone told me that she has a certain ability, that is, when she meets someone for the first time, she will have a hunch in which direction she will develop with him: friend or lover. I envied this intuition at the time. In this way, with this ability, I can tell him the first time I meet: I walk fast, I am a bit picky eaters, I will be nervous in front of the person I like, and I often only remember to say four if I think about ten sentences. Sentence, I am not very bold, I will not be too proactive. I can hold my chin for a whole afternoon, make a list, list all the characteristics of my body that may delay or encourage a relationship, and then hand it to him, just like the one left by the teacher to the students after the assignment of the homework. Supplementary reading.
Will you like me then? Will it or not?
Saw a movie two days ago. The heroine said that she can go to bed after five dates with a man. Sometimes the time scale really looks cold. But we do need it. For example, when you meet for the fifth time, you can see me smiling with my gums, when you meet for the tenth time, you can hear me swearing. They judge whether I am worthy of being chosen.
Because time breeds understanding, time is a qualification we must consider when talking about feelings. So if you don't give me time, then I think you are not qualified to choose or give up on me.
Sometimes we feel safe to transition from a friend to a lover. Just like Sally and Harry. But don't forget, they are not friends from the beginning. She didn't even like him at first. From a friend to a lover, they accomplished it in those three months. The twelve years before it was blank, because they didn't give each other time. He has Helen and she has Joe. They keep each other parallel.
There are such examples around me. The two people who outsiders felt that they didn't fit well, got along for a long time without incident, but one day suddenly the flames splashed, and they just got together like this. When asked, they would say that they hadn't really considered the other party in that aspect before, until one day, after something, everything went its way.
So I always think, since we have time to get to know each other, why should we fall in love at first sight? Since we are holding a lot of good conditions to incubate a relationship, to press a kind of throbbing, why do we want to risk desperately?
Very often it is difficult for us to know what kind of people we would like. Feelings are not fixed molds, they can be mechanically set on others at any time and any place. Sometimes we even like an object that surprised us or is far away from our vision. But when it happens, we feel right and happy, but we don’t know why.
Let me choose now. I don't think I want the ability to perceive the future relationship direction at first sight. I'd rather accept you who don't know which direction you are throwing from, and the lines are ambiguous and the content is vague. Take a moment to paint you clearly. Because I think that this process of depiction is part of the emotions. Maybe I walk fast, I’m a bit picky eaters, I’m nervous, not bold and not proactive, so I will lose you before I reach the end, but what about it? The choice after time has passed, I think we will all come from our hearts. Respect.
In this world, not all apples will meet another apple, all oranges will meet another orange. But sometimes the story of an apple and an orange is more moving than two apples or two oranges. All you have to do is take a little time to explore this unknown.
At the end of the movie, their exploration continued. There has never been an insured heart in this world. Just like one of the old couples who talked to the camera before, he chose her again after divorcing her for three years and experiencing others.
In this world, countless flesh and blood, true feelings, will experience confusion or sway. Compared to the fact that you have to take some time to make a detour, does that kind of good always look a little pale and boring.
When apples meet oranges. At this time, I don't know whether I fell in love with you who was silent and lost, or fell in love with the unpredictable destiny.
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