After watching the feel that hates iron and not steel~ I feel the same about my father's depression, self-talking, powerless, splitting, and wanting to commit suicide. But~ Except for being shocked a little by the struggle between my father and Beaver at the end, I didn't shoot it as a whole. Wei'er~ If you take a good shot, you may be able to cry for it and release it, but now it's unhurried and depressing. Combined with personal experience, I would like to say: 1. Optimism is an illusion, and life is the
happiness of entertaining oneself—an illusion. If you want to be happy, most of you just want to meet the external expectations and subconscious requirements of the self, and then create an illusion. The process of this illusion is self-entertainment. My father used Beaver to live the second spring, but the good times didn't last long. After the second spring, he was still depressed, because he built another image to cheer up, and he didn't face himself honestly, which was another way of escape.
As said in the play "pulled away the distance between him and his negative personality", but the father was still escaping from the negative personality. In the process of self-entertainment, you must accept your negative personality, which is often referred to as accepting yourself. Pure self-entertainment is another kind of escape. Just like a father, he is still empty and lonely after an orgasm. When the gap is too large, he will fall into deeper depression and schizophrenia.
2. Life is full of grief after being refined. What I have gained is: don’t be too delicate, it’s a good thing to live too much, and it’s too much to live too full.
3. There is always a time when I feel very sleepy for no reason. Once upon a time, like the protagonist, I think that throwing away the past is the way to break the confinement. But the essence of this idea is to evade, and in the final analysis, it is to blame the environment and personnel for self-dissatisfaction. It is not the way to smash the miscellaneous and destroy it. Memories are full of people and make people strong. Without memories and experiences, there is no enlightenment.
Almost no one welcomes a depressed person. Pursuing success and achieving excellence is a good goal, but it is not a normal attitude to life. When you push through the thick fog and struggle in the maze, please remember to face yourself and admit your own shortcomings and inadequacies. "He seems to be dead and forgot to take his body", whenever dosth. I believe that depression is difficult to prevent, just like the son in the film does not want to be a father. But in fact he has gradually entered the predicament as he had initially. When you encounter a situation, you can only rely on yourself to adjust, and no one can help you. Life is to entertain oneself, to explore and find intoxication by oneself, to enjoy loneliness is what the university asks~
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