I watched a movie last night that I thought was very good. I would like to recommend it to everyone today. It is called "Growing Education". It mainly tells about a female high school student who has been living a step-by-step life for the first 16 years. I want to be admitted to Oxford University, although my life is boring and rigid, but I always have an Oxford goal in my heart. However, on a rainy day, a female high school student was waiting for the train in the rain, and she met a handsome, rich and humorous uncle. This was a fatal temptation for this young girl, and she started a life different from before.
The story is like many love stories. The uncle takes the ignorant girl to and from various high-end places, allowing the girl to experience the life of the upper class, romantic restaurants, expensive gifts, colorful life, the girl begins to change, the girl in the film interpretation Her makeup is slowly changing, her clothes are changing, her original innocent and lovely appearance was wrapped tightly in a high-end dress, and her personality began to become vain and conceited.
When I was a student, I heard such a phrase describing growth. It said that growth is called growth, and growth is to pay the price. For the girl, the price came very timely. When she was willing to give up everything to marry the uncle, she found out that he had a wife. The original love for her was just the same condiment in the uncle's life, just a different taste.
When the girl went to the street to find the uncle's wife, she saw a woman leading a little boy to take him to school. The way she walked revealed that the woman was pregnant. A woman's intuition was sometimes very accurate. The woman knew that the girl was Who, she said something to her, is worth thinking about.
It turns out that she is just one of the uncle's many lovers. In fact, think about it, how can a mature, steady and humorous middle-aged uncle not be entangled in other feelings, just a little girl in love, blinded by vanity, no I just want to believe it. Growth comes at a price. She gave up her studies and escaped from the school and wanted to live an upper-class life with her uncle, which was just a bubble of her own.
Those who are deeply caught in it cannot see the road ahead clearly, such as herself, she thinks that reading is not only for a good life, and going to Oxford is only for entering these high society, if she can get it directly now , why go to read those boring books, go to that school, what is the meaning? In her vain life, the teacher once couldn't bear her depravity and gave her advice, but how could a young girl listen to other people's advice.
She even sneered and said to the teacher, you are smart and beautiful, but you are teaching here now, what is your life? The girl thinks she has found the meaning of life, not like you, living but no life.
I have been thinking about such a question, what is the purpose of reading, I answered such a question a few days ago, my answer is that reading can make people change their temperament, change their appearance, and become beautiful. This is only one aspect. In fact, on the other hand, reading allows you to choose your life. Even if the future is a tragedy, you can have more choices than others.
Whether the teacher is married or not is not described in the play. It feels like a "leftover girl", but I firmly believe that in this world, there are no leftover girls. The remaining girls are just unwilling to lower their bottom line and requirements. Just live.
Compared with those who take girls into and out of high-end production institutes, the female teacher lives with more dignity and quality. Although she is lonely, she does not need to coax and do unethical things.
Let's talk about his parents in the play. Parents always expect their children to become dragons and phoenixes. In fact, the reason is that they do not recognize themselves. His father said that he has lived in fear all his life, so he is in I especially hope that my daughter can live a life without fear and fear. She has a great school endorsed for her. In the future, she will find a fast-moving son-in-law for him. Isn't life happy.
In the play, when the daughter asked her father that she did not want to go to college or to get married, the father's answer was a little sad, and it also revealed his true intention to let his daughter be admitted to Oxford.
It turns out that deep down, I just hope that my daughter can be taken care of, and that being married is more important than studying well. In my opinion, my daughter's rebuttal is the best response to this view.
If studying and studying is only for a better marriage, then why didn't you spend your best youth in choosing a mate in the first place? Whether it is a Chinese parent or a foreign parent, there is this little selfishness in the bones.
In a letter to his son, Long Yingtai said: "My child, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with Bizren, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future, the meaning of choice, There is time to work, not being forced to make a living, when your work has meaning in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment, when your work gives you time and does not take away your life, you have dignity, fulfillment and dignity , make you happy".
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, but I am more in favor of Long Yingtai's point of view, my child, I let you study, so that you can better gain dignity in the future and be with the people and things you like.
At the end of the story, the girl went to the female teacher who had advised her for help. Seeing the quality of her life, the girl suddenly understood what the female teacher had said to her. What that man gave to you will be given to you in the future. yourself, and better than what he gave you.
There are no shortcuts in life. Those who always want to take shortcuts, most of them don't take the road seriously, and they don't know that they can get more things than this person gives you. The powerful Suxin Pill is just a pill, and it will be instant. Passed away, and those things that exist for a long time must be obtained with effort.
In the end, the girl was admitted to Oxford University, met a boy of the same age, and went to Paris with the boy. The girl said that she promised to go to Paris with the boy as if she had never been there before.
The ending of the story can be regarded as a happy ending. The girl woke up in time and found her original direction. This episode made her mature and become wise, but if the girl and the uncle got married, she never found out that the uncle had a family and gave up. What will be the fate of the girl who is studying, will she become the woman she has seen many years later, lead the child, and regret all these choices?
I don't know, because life has no ifs and no shortcuts.
There are no shortcuts in life. Where you want to go, there must be a lot of people who want to go, but I still advise you to take it slow, one step at a time, because this will make you walk steadily, and even if you fall, you can still have the ability to climb. stand up.
The article ends here. I am very grateful for every question that reads my article. I am looking forward to your attention and your sharing.
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