Your life, my decision.

Esmeralda 2022-12-15 08:47:20



The same house has witnessed the story for at least 70 years. Even though they happened at different times but within the same kind of people.

There are not many Les Xiang movies that I think I have seen, but those that are more popular are almost all seen.

I remember the blush and heartbeat when I watched [Habitation En Rome], and

I also remember how moved I was to the last scene when I watched [Fingerman].

But I just want to say a little more about this movie, just for those really touching hearts.



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1961. [If you get to know her a little bit, you'll know what she wants].

In the dim cinema of those days, two old women watched a Les movie with their hands clasped together.

Did the plot in the movie remind them of who they were? When was it in the 1920s?

The laughter from behind made the two old women let go of each other's hands, and then walked far apart on the road late at night.

Abby loves birds but accidentally fell to the ground while watching starlings and died. The story really begins here.

Edith and Abby have lived together for 30 years, but cannot be classified as Abby's relatives because the relationship is not legally recognized.

She waited all night in the hospital but couldn't get to the ward or even see Abby for the last time.

She couldn't hold a funeral for the person she loved the most as a family member, and she couldn't keep the house she shared with her lover.

She couldn't but didn't want to keep those fragile birds, she couldn't change her last name just because she wasn't married.

She can't hang pictures on the walls that testify to the good times that two people have gone through.

The two old people are just teachers in the same school, they have a deep understanding of each other and they have supported each other for so many years.

They don't need the approval of their relatives and just live their lives bravely.

In the end, Edith finally left the house and was left alone in this world. so quiet.



1972.[I just think it's easy for me to dress like this because that's who I am]



It turns out that in those days, girls wearing men's clothes were meant to be laughed at.

I can't help but sigh that times have really changed. After all, how many people are still in the trend of neutral beauty and so on.

At that time if Linda and Amy were out and about together then it would be seen to be related to each other.

So the whole story is based on Linda's change of mood from cowardice to bravery.

For the time being, no matter how brave the two are and how successful the ending is. Just wanted to share some personal thoughts on the way Les behaves.

I don't think I'm a rotten girl (I really couldn't understand the word exactly at the time). I also don't love how YY same-sex sparks can come out.

It seems understandable to the world of men, but to be honest, I still don't want such a thing to happen to my friends.

And for the relationship between girls and girls, I have always used one word to describe the relationship - beautiful.

so. What I understand from les does not mean that I will define in my heart that I must like women and must be interested in women.

But when you meet her. You will want to go down with her and live a life of chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea with her.

If one of them happens to like boys to dress up in appearance, that's a personal freedom, but it's very unnecessary and annoying to change their behavior patterns in order to cater to the so-called T and P categories. Personally, I hate people who dress themselves up as a certain role in order to follow the so-called trend, and they are really incapable of accepting those non-mainstream neutral dresses. I always feel that it is best to be yourself. Being a girl doesn't have to change appearances to make something beautiful in itself so artificial and incomprehensible.

I also don't agree with the statement that girls enter a certain group because they are hurt by boys. The existence of anything in the world is justified. Love can arise between men and women, but why is it not allowed between girls and girls? Why do girls have to be indoctrinated with various reasons that others think are reasonable after they have developed love between girls? Everyone has their own life and worldview. It doesn't mean that what you think is wrong is wrong, and it doesn't mean that you can speculate on other people's lives with your way of thinking.



2000.[Maybe you can give it a try]



In such a real world, how should two women have a child.

The most ingenious point of the story is that it does not play two people who have a broken relationship because they want a child.

Rather, it's about how carefully two mothers look forward to finding ways to have lovely babies.

I especially liked how excited Fran was to meet the sperm that was finally selected, and

also especially liked the way Kal was bouncing across the gravel road with frozen sperm over and over again.

The two sat in the car and looked at the smiles of the kindergarten children.

The energy and helplessness that two people put into finding the right sperm.

In the end, Fran told Kal that he was afraid that his children would be ridiculed.

Kal told her that every child goes through those times of ridicule, just tell her how to distinguish between ridicule and discrimination.

The encouragement and relief the mother gave when she finally told the two of them to give it a try always made one believe that there was still some sunshine in the world.






Every love will eventually go flat, whether it's a man or a woman, a man or a woman.

It's not that how you enter a relationship, how to stay together and how to manage is the most difficult part.

In this life, people still have to choose someone who you think is worth paying for to have a relationship with.

Regardless of height, appearance, family background, status, wealth, or even gender.

But if you choose, you should go with your heart. Not to prove anything to others, just to be worthy of yourself.

Just like the pair of old people at the beginning, they walked with the help of a lifetime of trials and hardships and happy times.

Even if one finally leaves one, will the other remain in this world regret?




A good relationship is never seen through the eyes of others.

But it really came from the days when two people treated each other with sincerity.

It is never "them" that matters, but "us". Is not it?

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If These Walls Could Talk 2 quotes

  • Kal: I hate that I can't get you pregnant.

    Fran: I hate it more.

    Kal: Couldn't possibly.

    Fran: Oh yeah.

  • Fran: Do you think it's selfish, wanting to bring a child into this world?

    Kal: What do you mean?

    Fran: I mean, aside from all the craziness and the violence, and if it's our child, it'll get teased. It's gonna have to defend us.

    Kal: Maybe, but kids get teased. All kids get teased. It's a part of childhood, isn't it? And hopefully by the time our child is old enough to know what discrimination is, the world will have changed a bit.

    Fran: If it doesn't?

    Kal: If it doesn't is an interesting question because it always has. All I want to do is love you. And just keep loving you, and love our kid, and have our kid witness our love. It's all from love, how can that be wrong?