Recommend to all women who care about their own situation, all who try to care about the situation of women but still don’t understand, or don’t really care about the situation of women, they just care about why they want to engage in feminism, or wonder why they want to engage in feminism. In this society, their women's power is very powerful. Appropriately for men who are living well, go to the American drama "Unbelievable".
This is a film that cuts in from women suffering from sexual crimes, and realistically reveals the injustices that women can only feel in terms of work, social evaluation, treatment of strangers, etc., as well as the true empathy between women only-this is Why the law enforcement system and the power class must have a sufficient proportion of female workers in order to truly solve the problem of gender equality, and can not count on men's true empathy and understanding.
I talked to a middle-aged male friend of my being a feminist, and the other party immediately interrupted me, hoping that I could explain to him why we need to do feminist movement, and what injustices do you feel in society? ? I understand that he really doesn't know, so I want to know. I explained to him from the data that over a period of time, the sex ratio of babies born in Hubei Province was more than that of males. With a natural probability that the sample is large enough to tens of millions, this ratio should be very close to 1:1. Why are the millions of unborn girls not born? They were manually selected before they were born.
The male friend went on to say, I understand this, but I still can't empathize at all. Can you give me an example that is more life-oriented and more people around me. I said that the bigger and more open cities are relatively fairer, the injustice will be more serious in small cities in relatively closed areas. So I started telling him that his friend I, a 25-year-old independent single professional woman who lives in a first-tier city and has a good education and income level, my parents are relatively reasonable and open parents. But a few days ago, a friend of my parents introduced a civil servant who is not as good as me in terms of education, income, and appearance, but who also lives in Beijing with registered permanent residence as a blind date. My mother couldn't explain to me that I could not reject them and let me pass the other party's WeChat, but I had no desire to see the other party at all, so I truthfully reflected my thoughts and plans to my mom. During a conversation, my mother said that we just think you are of age. After the golden period of these few years, it will be difficult to find. Your dad and I will be talked about by relatives, friends and colleagues. You can’t hear it. But we can hear it. My brain buzzed and it exploded, and I didn't want to have any more conversations at all. What is "golden period" is like a description of a commodity for sale at a good price. He said, I understand a little bit, men in the same situation may experience less dialogue and pressure like this.
I also have a younger male friend who is a feminist, an alliance we women can fight for. But he said more than once that he knew that he could not really empathize because he was not a woman. I used to think it was not very clear why a man like him could not do it. Seeing "Unbelievable" and the accompanying thoughts, I think I understand.
—————— There may be slight spoilers below, but the drama itself is very low suspense———— I watched this drama in one breath, and it was filled with uncomfortable wanting to cry and being proud of them and wanting to cry. Emotions.
About women's mutual help and empathy. One line is about two female detectives in another jurisdiction. Different from the male law enforcement investigators who deal with rape cases, they all have deep empathy, almost perfect working ability and attitude. They invested enough emotion and time and energy to cooperate in possible serial rape cases. They groped in the dark, facing the impassable roads. Faced with possible male suspects in the police system, no help was received. Even once they say their reasonable guesses, they are likely to face the collective hostility and obstruction of the two female detectives in the law enforcement system where the majority of men are men. No one really understands them as they say, except for the women themselves. Their protection and empathy for the victims, and the mutual help between their female partners. The older female police detective, as the professional idol of the younger police detective, quietly gave more credit to the latter. This is where I really burst into tears.
Regarding the situation of women, another line is the experience of the main victim, Mary, who is under 18 years old. Because of her inappropriate behavior in the eyes of her adoptive mother, the law enforcement system found her to be lying. She was threatened to admit that she was lying, and then accused of reporting to the police. , She was forced by the legal system to plead guilty and pay a fine of 500 yuan, and she had to borrow the 500 yuan from her adoptive mother who had a bad relationship. She lost her pitiful relatives and friends who can be trusted, suffered texting violence from strangers, lost her job, her shelter and social welfare, and her freedom...
The most uncomfortable thing to watch is that there are two lines in the entire eight episodes, one of which is about Mary's worse experience step by step after the incident in 2008. The other line talks about the investigation of two female police officers in 2011. This means that before the truth came, Mary had been betrayed from hell for three years.
After the truth became clear, the male police detective who made a mistake gave her a municipal letter. The girl walked to the gloomy corner of work and opened the envelope. A five-hundred dollar cheque fell on the ground. Police, she must pay the fine when she has to plead guilty. The girl picked up the five hundred dollars on the ground. The check made me feel like Lin Zhao was asked to pay five cents of bullet fees.
Mary still stared at the five hundred yuan refunded to her by the city government until the day. Three years ago, when Mary was doing psychological counseling, the female counselor asked her what lessons you learned from these bad experiences. Because your life is so long, you will inevitably still encounter this kind of unfairness in the future. Treat the bad things. This time three years later, Mary walked into the lawyer's office. She wanted to sue everything, starting with the government.
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